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to be a dickwad

to be a dickwad

1 9.9
Act in a rude, foolish way that annoys or upsets other people
  • phrasal verb
  • /bi ə ˈdɪkˌwɑd/
  • Offensive
: ser un gilipollas (vulgar, esp.)
  • His rude comments at the party made everyone think he was being a dickwad.

Examples

  • If you keep being a dickwad to your coworkers, no one will want to help you.

  • There’s no need to be a dickwad—just listen to what they have to say.

  • She told him not to be a dickwad about the situation and just accept the decision.

  • Don't be a dickwad at the party!

  • He can really be a dickwad sometimes.

  • She tends to be a dickwad when she doesn't get her way, frustrating her friends.

  • Don't be a dickwad by interrupting others while they are speaking.

Synonyms

being a bitch
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
63 9.9

Treating other people in an unkind, harsh way

is more about foolish annoying behaviour than mean cruelty
to act like a jerk
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
14 8.4

To behave rudely or meanly toward other people

is cruder and more likely to make others angry rather than just offended
to be such an arse
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
6 9.9

To act rudely and annoy other people

is stronger in being deliberately provocative and angering
to be an arsehole
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
2 9.9

Behave rudely and selfishly, ignoring other people's feelings

is more about annoying conduct rather than selfish intent specifically
to be a tosser
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To behave in a rude, stupid way

is harsher and more likely to provoke anger or offense
to be a berk
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To act in a foolish way

carries stronger unpleasantness and intent to annoy others
to acting like a prick
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To behave in a rude and hurtful way to other people

is broader, covering annoying foolishness as well as direct rudeness
to act like an asshat
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Behave in a rude and stupid way

focuses more on annoying conduct rather than contempt alone
to act like a horse's ass
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To behave rudely and foolishly in a way that annoys or embarrasses people

is more aggressive in provoking anger rather than simple embarrassment
to be a dink
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To behave in a rude or foolish way that annoys other people

is harsher and more likely to provoke anger or offense
to act like a cuntrag
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave in a very rude and insulting way to other people

is about irritating or foolish behaviour rather than brutal insult
to act like a total fucktwat
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave in a very rude and thoughtless way that upsets other people

is closer to annoying foolishness than shocking offensiveness
to act like a dickface
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave very rudely and make other people angry or upset

is more about annoying or foolish conduct than strong offense
to act like a fuckskull
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave in a very foolish and rude way

is more about annoying or irritating behaviour than calculated insult
to act like a douchecanoe
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave rudely and selfishly and annoy other people

leans more toward simple foolishness rather than severe nastiness
to act like an assmunch
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

Behave in a rude, annoying, and foolish way toward other people

is more about provoking anger than mere silly behaviour
to act like an arseface
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave in a rude and annoying way

is stronger in provoking anger rather than mere silliness
to acting like an assbutt
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave in a rude and annoying way

is more aimed at angering people than simple foolishness
to be a shitbiscuit
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To act in a rude and unhelpful way

is more about provoking anger than mere unhelpfulness
to be a scrote
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To act selfishly and treat other people badly

is wider, focusing on foolish annoying behaviour rather than selfishness
to be a jagoff
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

Act in a rude, annoying way toward other people

is closer to simple foolish or irritating conduct rather than contempt
to be a choad
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To act in a rude, annoying way that other people dislike

is more focused on angering others rather than simple foolishness
to act like a dingleberry
vsto be a dickwad
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave in a silly or annoying way

is more offensive and likely to anger rather than merely annoy

Antonyms

79 1.0

Friendly and polite in a way that makes others feel good

63 2.5

Showing care for other people's needs and feelings

Surface Forms

be a dickwad infinitive
been a dickwad past participle
being a dickwad present participle
dickwads third person singular

Morphology

be + a + dickwad

The copular frame 'be a' is fully compositional, but the noun 'dickwad' is an informal/slang insult whose meaning is not transparently derived from literal parts. A learner who knows 'dick' may infer an insulting sense, yet the exact nuance and formation are slangy and unpredictable for a B1 learner, giving only partial predictability.

Etymology

Be a dickwad may come from joining dick (a rude word for a selfish or stupid person) and wad (a small, useless lump), giving a silly, insulting image. Thinking of someone as a small, useless lump makes the insult stronger, so today be a dickwad means 'to act rude, annoying, or foolish'.