Indian giving
- noun
- Slur
- She accused him of Indian giving after he asked for the gift back.
Examples
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She was shocked by his Indian giving when he demanded the gift back after a few days.
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Please avoid Indian giving; if you give something, let it stay given.
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Many found his Indian giving behavior rude and inconsiderate at the birthday party.
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His Indian giving left her feeling hurt.
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She felt uncomfortable with his Indian giving behavior.
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Many found his Indian giving behavior at the party to be offensive and disrespectful.
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His Indian giving made her question whether he truly appreciated their friendship.
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Surface Forms
Morphology
The meaning ‘taking back a gift’ is not predictable from the literal constituents 'Indian' (pertaining to a people) and 'giving' (the act of giving); a B1 learner who knows those words would most likely interpret it as giving associated with Indians rather than rescinding a gift. This is a culturally specific, idiomatic—and offensive—expression whose meaning and negative connotations cannot be derived from its parts, so it is not transparently interpretable.
Etymology
Indian giving may come from a wrong idea by early settlers who saw Native people give something and then ask for something back, and so they named the act using Indian and giving. So the phrase came to mean 'taking back a gift' or 'expecting it back'. The phrase is offensive today, so it is best not to use it.