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to wink at

to wink at

1 7.5
To pretend not to see something bad to show approval
  • phrasal verb
  • /wɪŋk æt/
translation icon : hacer la vista gorda
  • Glancing up from the table, I was taken aback to see Natalie wink at me and smile.

People with power on the right either wink at this or pretend it's not happening.

Examples

  • "Common sense?" If Medeous was winking at illegal drugs, Janet didn't want to know about it.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • I wink at her.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • And I was supposed to wink at this?

    Fiction book (1991)
  • People with power on the right either wink at this or pretend it's not happening.

  • But we have learned to wink at the Bible in the West, whereas Islam, to a much greater extent, takes it very seriously.

  • It will soon be the time of Carnevale when authority winks at our indiscretions.

  • But then dig down and like, say, if harassment is being winked at, you know, or being whistled at, then you know, really, is this really such a well, here's something.

  • The teacher decided to wink at the student's minor mistake instead of calling it out in front of the class.

  • The manager often winks at small infractions, allowing employees some leeway to encourage a relaxed atmosphere.

  • Parents may wink at harmless mischief among their children, believing it fosters creativity.

Synonyms

to turn a blind eye
vsto wink at
41 5.4

Choose to ignore something wrong

implies silent approval or encouragement beyond mere ignoring
5 5.6

To act as if you do not see something to avoid making someone feel embarrassed

shows quiet approval or encouragement rather than avoidance
to connive at
vsto wink at
  • Formal
9.5

To secretly allow something wrong to happen

is milder showing quiet approval rather than active collusion

Antonyms

367 3.8

To admit that something is true or real

298 4.0

To strongly criticize someone or something publicly

to denounce
  • Formal
115 6.8

Publicly criticize someone or something strongly

How Permissive

to encourage
325 2.1
to wink at
1 7.5
to approve
1.6
to criticize
701 3.3
to punish
821 1.0

Surface Forms

wink at infinitive
winked at past
winked at past participle
winking at present participle
winks at third person singular

Morphology

wink + at

The meaning is directly built from the constituents: 'wink' (to close one eye as a signal) plus the preposition 'at' (directed toward someone) yields the sense of signaling or showing interest to a person. This verb + preposition pattern and the associated gesture are cross-linguistically common and thus predictable for a B1 learner who knows both words.

Etymology

Wink at may come from the small, secret act of closing one eye, the wink, toward a problem so you pretend not to see it. That's why it now means 'to pretend not to notice' and quietly allow something wrong.