why me
10
8.3
- idiom
- Informal
:
por qué a mí
- When faced with yet another setback, she sighed and said, "Why me?"
- asked, why me?
- said, 'why me'
- cried out, 'why me'
Well, first of all, why me, you know, And then also who's out there?
- Well, first of all, why me, you know, And then also who's out there?
- He asked why me, I'm not on birth control.
- You know, why me, why them, why did this happen to my family?
- And I tried to, I sort of started explaining, you know why me?
- So like I was saying, man, my prayer was that, you know, oh, God, not not why me?
- Then toughen you to then, OK, make you not a better person, but it can also make you better because you think, why me?
Examples
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After losing my job unexpectedly, I couldn't help but think, "Why me?"
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Without looking away from the sea, I asked, "Why me?"
Fiction book (1995) -
You know, why me, why them, why did this happen to my family?
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First of all, why me?
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You may well ask at this point, why me?
Academic text (2007) -
Why me and not them?
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I start thinking, why me, and woe is me when this happens.
Blog text (2) -
Time and again, during interviews, they cried out, "Why me?"
Academic text (1993) -
Why me and not some other creature, a lobster, say, a mouse, a sponge?
Fiction book (2001) -
As I received the news that I was picked for jury duty, my friend jokingly asked, "Why me?"
Synonyms
5
8.8
A short cry that shows you feel very sorry for yourself
How Self-Pitying
- Informal
5
8.8
- Informal
10
8.3
Surface Forms
Morphology
why + me
The exclamation 'why me' directly combines 'why' (asking for a reason) with 'me' (the speaker) to mean 'why is this happening to me?', so a B1 learner who knows both words will readily infer the expression of frustration or self-pity. This rhetorical-question pattern is cross-linguistically common, reinforcing its compositional and transparent nature.
Etymology
Why me is like someone pointing at themselves and asking why life chose them for a bad thing. People say it when they feel 'unfairly treated' or full of 'self-pity', so it means asking why something bad happened to them.