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wallflower

wallflower

11 7.0
A shy person who stays at the edge of a party and does not dance
  • noun
  • /ˈwɔːlˌflaʊər/
  • Informal
translation icon : persona tímida
  • At the party, she felt like a wallflower, sitting quietly while everyone danced around her.
  • wallflower at the party
  • never a wallflower
  • wallflower type

Why not a passive sort of wallflower that doesn't do anything?

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Examples

  • When you're young... at your first dance... and you're sitting on a small gilt chair... with your eyes lowered... terrified that you'll be a Wallflower.

  • I'd have bet anything he was going to be the all American wallflower.

  • Jack is probably going to make it with little miss wallflower tonight.

  • Hey, Judge, what should we do with the wallflower?

  • Keep it up, fellows, while I dance with the wallflower.

  • The problem is that this college is so enclosed, she's become a wallflower!

  • And Martha found herself doing just what she'd done in junior high: seeking out the lone wallflower.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • We have kids that now participate who used to be wallflowers; we have kids that used to fight and argue who are no longer a problem.

    Academic text (2012)
  • You're a wallflower.

  • Welcome, everybody, to the Oscars Red Carpet or, as I know it, the Prom of the World, where I get to feel like a buck-toothed wallflower without a date.

Synonyms

sideliner
vswallflower
6.1

A person who is present at an event but does not take part

stays at social events without joining activities usually because of shyness

Antonyms

295 2.4

A person who joins an activity or event

29 6.7

A person well known in high society who often goes to parties

Compounds

A plant from western North America with bright orange yellow flowers

How Social

socialite
29 6.7
participant
295 2.4
wallflower
  • Informal
11 7.0
loner
79 4.2
recluse
22 7.8

Surface Forms

wallflower singular
wallflowers plural

Morphology

wallflower = wall + flower (semi-transparent) = wall + flower

The components 'wall' and 'flower' are obvious, but the figurative meaning 'a shy person who stays on the sidelines' is idiomatic and not fully predictable from the parts.

Etymology

Wallflower is also used for a shy person at a party because people noticed guests standing by the wall like the plant stays at the edge. A helpful image is a quiet flower by the wall, so a wallflower means someone who stays on the sidelines and does not join the dancing or talk.