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to tug at someone's heartstrings

to tug at someone's heartstrings

1 5.3
To make someone feel very sad or touched
  • idiom
  • Informal
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  • Her tale of overcoming obstacles tugged at his heartstrings, leaving him feeling deeply moved.

Examples

  • It really made my day to read it and tugged at my heartstrings that you are so happy and have so much determination. :)

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  • That adorable bundle of fur with puppy-dog eyes and the promise to be your best friend forever is surely going to tug at anyone's heartstrings.

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  • This event always tugs at my heartstrings as I look at how far my students have come in one short year.

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  • Your writing is beyond phenomenal and always tugs at my heartstrings.

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  • It actually tugged at my heartstrings.

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  • I spoke with the officer today who created this fund for him, and she stated that in her 12 years of law enforcement, no person has tugged at her heartstrings the way M did the day of this tragedy.

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  • We are introduced to the Empress's young daughter early in the game, which tugs at our heartstrings, providing a vulnerable object to feel protective of throughout the game and to associate with her mother and the pathos of losing her.

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  • That's a pretty great start to making your campaign successful—be game-changing, have a grand vision, and tug at people's heartstrings.

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  • The emotional story of the stray dog really tugged at my heartstrings and made me want to help.

  • The film's heartbreaking ending tugs at the heartstrings of anyone who has loved and lost.

Synonyms

to grieve
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
95 4.1

To make someone feel very sad

is milder, meaning strong sadness or sympathy rather than deep sorrow
to sadden
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
76 2.3

To make someone feel sad

is stronger, pointing to deep sympathy or strong sadness
to pain
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
45 4.9

To make someone feel sad or upset

is more about causing sadness or sympathy rather than general distress
to break someone's heart
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
  • Informal
34 3.4

To make someone very sad because of love or disappointment

is about sadness or sympathy generally not only romantic pain
to weigh down
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
9 4.9

Make someone feel sad or worried

is more aimed at causing sympathy or sadness not longterm burden
to touch the heart
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
3 3.7

Make someone feel strong emotion or sympathy

is similar but focuses on personal warmth rather than vivid imagery
to touch a chord
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
  • Informal
2 5.8

To make a person feel a strong emotion

is focused specifically on sadness or sympathy rather than broader feelings
to pull at heartstrings
vsto tug at someone's heartstrings
  • Informal
5.3

Make people feel deep sadness or pity

is the same meaning but uses a different idiomatic verb

Antonyms

48 1.0

To enjoy something very much

How Moving

to break someone's heart
  • Informal
34 3.4
to tug at someone's heartstrings
  • Informal
1 5.3
to touch
680 2.9
to move
668 3.4
affect
  • Specialized
14 9.5

Surface Forms

Morphology

tug + at + someone's + heartstring

The meaning 'to cause strong feelings of sadness or sympathy' is directly inferable from 'tug' (to pull) combined with 'someone's heartstrings' (a metaphorical source of strong feelings); if a learner knows these constituent meanings they can compose them to reach the idiomatic sense. The physical-pulling→emotional-response metaphor is common cross-linguistically and follows a predictable mapping, making the expression immediately comprehensible to a B1 learner who knows the parts.

Etymology

The idiom tug at someone's heartstrings may come from the image of a heart with thin heartstrings, like strings on a small instrument. A gentle tug on those strings makes the heart show strong feeling, so the phrase means 'to cause strong feelings of sadness or sympathy'.