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tone-deaf

tone-deaf

6 7.7
Not aware of other people's feelings or reactions
  • adjective
  • /toʊn dɛf/
  • Offensive
translation icon : falto de tacto
  • This is some of the most tone deaf advertising for a digital game store I think I've ever seen.
  • politically tone-deaf
  • completely tone-deaf
  • tone-deaf police chief

Stupid at best and completely fucking tone deaf to reality at worst.

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Examples

  • This confirms for me that Robert can be a jerk and very emotionally and culturally tone-deaf.

    Blog text (22)
  • Their own class privilege can be quite invisible to them, leading them to say tone-deaf, obnoxious things.

    Blog text (11)
  • This is just such a tone deaf decision.

  • Then the marketing is really bad and still somewhat tone deaf, at least for the technical press.

  • This might be the most ill-conceived and tone-deaf editorial I have ever read.

    Blog text (33)
  • It strikes me as particularly tone-deaf to the reality that is Southern California.

    Blog text (24)
  • I think the negative responses are hilarious in the way that they're totally tone-deaf and clueless.

    Blog text (13)
  • Arroway may be a good, even great scientist, but she's politically tone-deaf and a loose cannon.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • Over the past year, the board has been roundly criticized for becoming a rubber stamp for former President Graham Spanier and for being tone-deaf to the feelings of large groups of alumni when it did take charge in the wake of Sandusky's arrest.

    Blog text (31)
  • His tone-deaf response to the tragedy left many feeling hurt and frustrated.

Synonyms

insensitive
vstone-deaf
124 4.6

Not showing care for other people's feelings or needs

is about failing to detect emotional nuances rather than deliberate disregard
unresponsive
vstone-deaf
20 4.7

Not reacting to touch, sound, or commands

is about failing to notice emotional cues rather than simply not reacting
tactless
vstone-deaf
5 4.9

Showing no care for other people's feelings when speaking or acting

is about not noticing emotional signals rather than careless speech
insensible
vstone-deaf
1 7.3

Does not notice or care about things that upset other people

focuses on missing subtle emotional cues rather than general unawareness
insensate
vstone-deaf
1 9.9

Having no feeling in body or mind and no pity

is about missing social signals rather than being emotionally numb
unreactive
vstone-deaf
1 6.5

Does not show feelings or respond when someone tries to upset them

refers to low reactivity rather than specific insensitivity to social signals
tone-deaf to others' feelings
vstone-deaf
  • Offensive
8.4

Not able or willing to notice how other people feel

is the shorter general label for that same unawareness
highly insensitive
vstone-deaf
5.5

Being very uncaring about other people's feelings

is milder, indicating lack of perception rather than strong disregard

Antonyms

488 2.9

Aware of and careful about other people's feelings

2 5.1

Able to notice things using the senses like sight or hearing

How Sensitive

empathetic
30 4.4
sensitive
488 2.9
tone-deaf
  • Offensive
6 7.7
oblivious
76 6.3

Surface Forms

tone-deaf positive

Morphology

tone-deaf = tone + deaf (semi-transparent) = tone + deaf

While the components 'tone' and 'deaf' are clear, the idiomatic meaning of being insensitive to social cues is not directly derivable.

Etymology

The word tone-deaf comes from the parts tone ('the feeling or attitude in speech') and deaf ('not able to hear'). So calling someone tone-deaf means they 'do not hear' the mood or feelings of others, which is why the phrase says they miss social or emotional cues.