to talk to a brick wall
- idiom
- Informal
- Every time I try to explain my feelings, it feels like I'm talking to a brick wall.
Examples
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Oh, why am I talking to a brick wall?
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Trying to get through to them is like talking to a brick wall.
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He refused to acknowledge my concerns, so it was just like talking to a brick wall.
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When I suggested changes, she ignored my input, making the conversation feel like talking to a brick wall.
Synonyms
To speak to someone who does not respond or listen
Antonyms
How Responsive
- Informal
Surface Forms
Morphology
The meaning is directly inferable from combining 'talk' (to speak) with the image of a 'brick wall' as an unresponsive barrier — a speaker who receives no reply. This concrete metaphor (wall = obstacle/non‑listener) is common across languages and follows an obvious compositional logic that a B1 learner who knows the words can readily understand.
Etymology
The idiom talk to a brick wall comes from the simple image of someone speaking to a hard, silent brick wall that gives no answer. So the phrase is used when you try to speak to someone who 'refuses to listen'.