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to string someone along

to string someone along

17 7.5
Make someone believe a false promise for a long time to get an advantage
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
translation icon : dar largas (a alguien)
  • If you care about her, end it now instead of stringing her along.
  • just stringing you along
  • keep stringing her along
  • strung me along for several months

Examples

  • - Let's string him along for a little while.

  • Come on, Glen, you can't keep stringing us along.

  • You gotta string him along.

  • So what were you going to do. . . just string me along until the hearing date?

  • We can string them along for a couple of weeks and in that time, get them interested in a new project.

  • I knew you were stringing me along.

  • How did she know he wasn't just stringing her along?

    Fiction book (1992)
  • He's just been stringing us along, buying time.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • I'm just scared that she's stringing me along.

  • She decided to string someone along rather than tell the truth right away.

Synonyms

to deceive
vsto string someone along
270 3.9

To make someone believe something that is not true to get an advantage

is carried out over time to mislead and gain time or advantage
to con someone
vsto string someone along
  • Slang
7.7

To trick someone to get their money

is a longer ongoing deception meant to keep someone believing falsely

Antonyms

2.3

Show something that was hidden or secret

How Deceptive

to gaslight
  • Offensive
3 8.6
to manipulate
382 6.1
to string someone along
  • Informal
17 7.5
to lead on
  • Informal
24 6.0
to mislead
87 3.9

Surface Forms

stringing someone along present participle
strings someone along third person singular
strung someone along past participle

Morphology

string + someone + along

The literal parts suggest a metaphor of leading or keeping someone moving ('string' as binding/manipulating + 'along' as continuing), so learners can infer a notion of being led on. However, the specific sense of prolonged deception or false hope is a conventionalized, metaphorical extension that a B1 learner who only knows the constituents may not fully predict without exposure.

Etymology

The phrase string someone along may come from the image of a person led by a thin string, like a puppet, being pulled along with no real control. That's why it now means 'to deceive someone and keep them believing something false'.