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so-and-so

so-and-so

1 8.4
A person who is annoying or rude
  • noun
  • /ˈsoʊənˌsoʊ/
  • Offensive
: cabrón
  • You're a bad-tempered so-and-so, muttered Sheila; no wonder Mary left you for Tommy McCulloch.
  • Oh, that so-and-so
  • old so-and-so
  • so-and-so says

Examples

  • He's kind of been a twisted little so-and-so for a while.

    Blog text (16)
  • To some he's just a no-good so-and-so.

  • "How is that old so-and-so?" he asked.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • What did you say, you little so-and-so?

    Fiction book (1992)
  • "So you're a naughty so-and-so too," she said.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • The grocer's supplies were not exquisite enough for a spoiled, work-shy, stuck-up so-and-so as L. Henningsen.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • That so-and-so always manages to ruin the party for everyone.

  • Everyone knows he's just another typical so-and-so who never helps out.

  • She called him a lazy so-and-so for not completing the project on time.

Synonyms

bastard
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
∞ 8.0

A very rude word for a person you strongly dislike or who treats others badly

is milder and used when avoiding such severe personal attacks
son of a bitch
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
840 9.9

A rude word for a person who is cruel or very annoying

is milder and serves as a less vulgar alternative in casual speech
shit
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
471 9.9

A rude or unpleasant person who treats others badly

is milder and used as a softer disparaging option
fucker
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
400 9.9

A very rude and insulting word for a person you strongly dislike

is milder and used as a general, less abusive option
piece of shit
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
328 9.9

A person or thing that is very bad and has no value used to insult someone

is milder and used when avoiding very strong abusive language
prick
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
276 9.9

An insulting word for a rude, mean person

is milder and used instead of this blunt, hostile language
scumbag
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
162 9.5

A person who treats other people very badly and unfairly

is milder and used instead of this strongly insulting word
bum
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
138 7.2

A lazy person who others dislike for not working

is more general and used about annoyance rather than laziness
lowlife
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
63 7.7

A person who is dishonest or breaks the law

is broader, used for mild annoyance rather than moral judgment
skunk
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
35 8.1

A person who behaves badly and cannot be trusted

is milder and used casually rather than as a harsh attack
such an asshole
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
29 9.9

A very rude person who treats others badly

is milder and used instead of very strong insulting words
SOB
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
21 9.9

An insulting name for a person who is rude or mean

is milder and used in place of this blunt offensive short form
butthead
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
16 8.8

A rude, silly person who annoys others

is milder and used when avoiding harsher abusive words
nasty
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
15 2.0

Mean or offensive things that people say to hurt others

is milder and used as a general disparaging substitute
puke
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
15 9.9

A person you strongly dislike and think is bad

is milder and used when avoiding extremely harsh insults
stinker
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
14 7.2

A person who is mean or dishonest

is milder in tone and fits casual, low-anger remarks
butthole
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
12 9.9

A rude, insulting word for a very unpleasant person

is milder and serves as a less vulgar alternative in speech
git
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
10 9.9

A rude person who treats others badly

is milder and used instead of stronger, more offensive insults
dirty dog
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9 8.0

A person who behaves badly or cheats others

is milder and more general than truly hateful insults
rotter
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
7 8.9

A person who treats others very badly

is milder and used when avoiding harsher abusive words
tosser
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
7 9.9

A rude person who is annoying or stupid

is milder and used rather than stronger British vulgar insults
scum bag
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
6 8.9

A very bad person who treats other people cruelly

is milder and used in place of harsher moral condemnation
crumb
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
6 9.2

A person who is mean and cannot be trusted

is milder and used as a general disparaging substitute
cuss
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
5 8.6

A person who is often stubborn or irritating

is milder, used as a general disparaging substitute rather than a curse
blighter
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
4 9.3

A man or boy people talk about in a slightly annoyed but friendly way

is a mild substitute when avoiding harsher insults
sumbitch
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
3 9.9

A rude word for a person who is annoying or disliked

is milder and used instead of this coarse language
that bugger
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
2 9.9

A person who is annoying or causes trouble

is milder and often used instead of stronger insults
meany
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
2 7.2

A person who is unkind and hurts other people's feelings

is milder and used instead of stronger, more offensive insults
stinkpot
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
2 9.9

A rude word for a person people strongly dislike

is used more mildly as a casual disparaging term
rick
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who is annoying or unpleasant

is milder and serves as a general polite alternative to harsher words
orc
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.0

A rude name for a person who is cruel or very ugly

is milder and used instead of severe, dehumanizing insults
dillweed
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.3

A person who behaves in a silly or annoying way

is used more generally and less harshly than vulgar insults
stink bug
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 8.4

An unpleasant person who annoys others

is milder and used instead of more offensive language
stinkbug
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.0

A teasing name for a person who is annoying or unpleasant

is a general mild insult used to avoid harsher words
disagreeable person
vsso-and-so
1 4.5

An unpleasant person who is hard to get along with

is milder and used instead of stronger insulting words
no-good ass
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who acts badly and cannot be trusted

is milder and used as a softer disparaging alternative
nobber
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who annoys others by acting foolish

is milder and used instead of stronger insults in speech
poxy
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.9

An unpleasant person who is thought worthless

is milder in tone and used instead of stronger vulgar language
jism
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A rude name for a foolish, annoying person

is milder and used as a general disparaging alternative
shitfucker
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who is very rude and causes trouble for others

is milder and used as a less aggressive insult in speech
total buttass
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who acts like a fool and annoys others

is milder and used instead of crude, highly offensive expressions
total fuckweasel
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9.9

A very rude and selfish person who treats others badly

is milder and used to avoid extreme vulgar insults
shitwit
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9.9

A rude, stupid person who annoys others

is milder and used instead of harsh vulgar insults
shitbeast
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9.9

An offensive slang word for a rude person who treats others badly

is milder and used to avoid such strong offensive labels
fuckoid
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who is rude and annoying at social events

is milder and used to avoid highly offensive slang
cambion
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9.9

An insulting name for a cruel or troublesome person

is milder and focuses on annoyance rather than deep evil
nasty cuntmuncher
vsso-and-so
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who is very rude and insults others cruelly

is milder and used instead of this very shocking vulgarity

Antonyms

85 3.3

Having good qualities that make people respect you

79 1.0

Friendly and polite in a way that makes others feel good

How Insulting

crook
  • Offensive
146 3.9
scoundrel
  • Offensive
47 6.5
jerk
  • Offensive
683 4.2
so-and-so
  • Offensive
1 8.4
nuisance
62 3.6

Surface Forms

so-and-so singular
so-and-sos plural

Etymology

So-and-so is often used as a mild insult. Think of it as a quick fake name made from so and and that people use when they are annoyed. So, calling someone so-and-so shows you find them unpleasant without using a stronger word.