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self-abnegating

self-abnegating

9.9
To put other people's needs before your own
  • adjective
  • /ˌsɛlfˈæb.nɪˌɡeɪ.tɪŋ/
translation icon : auto-abnegante
  • Her self-abnegating attitude often leads her to help friends at the expense of her own happiness.

Examples

  • But it is the man's apparently self-abnegating personality that holds the key to the case.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • To be self-abnegating is to preclude the possibility of being authentically compassionate.

    Blog text (2)
  • "She told me Mexican women were the most self-abnegating in the world.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • If the reason why Carter freed his slaves remains a mystery, it remains a mystery of character, the kind we routinely face when we try to explain why anyone who should be fully invested in the status quo instead commits an act of radical and self-abnegating good.

    Academic text (2001)
  • It was the first time the word had been pronounced, and to think it was Elisa who had pronounced it - devout, all-suffering, self-abnegating Elisa!

    Fiction book (1996)
  • These included such traditional representations as that of the self-abnegating revolutionary mother/compañera, as well as new images such as that of the New Woman as guerrilla fighter and activist, also often represented as mothers.

    Academic text (2003)
  • Many heroes are self-abnegating, putting the needs of others before their own.

  • The self-abnegating nature of his decisions made him well-respected among his colleagues.

Synonyms

self-sacrificing
vsself-abnegating
5 5.5

Ready to give up your own needs to help others

is more of a habitual tendency rather than a deliberate voluntary act
self-denying
vsself-abnegating
1 7.0

Ready to put other people's needs before your own

is used mainly when the act benefits people rather than serving causes
renunciative
vsself-abnegating
  • Formal
9.9

Giving up personal pleasures and comforts for a simple life

is usually motivated specifically to help others rather than for renunciation
renunciant
vsself-abnegating
  • Formal
9.9

Giving up comfort and possessions for moral or religious reasons

is focused on denying wants mainly to help other people rather than for discipline

Antonyms

self-serving
  • Offensive
49 6.4

Putting your own needs first without caring about others

How Self-Denying

self-abnegating
9.9
self-denying
1 7.0
selfless
72 3.2

Surface Forms

self-abnegating positive

Morphology

self-abnegating = self-abnegate (semi-transparent) = self + abnegate + ing

The suffix '-ing' forms the adjective from the verb 'self-abnegate', but the overall meaning might not be immediately clear to all learners.

Etymology

The word self-abnegating comes from self- meaning 'oneself' and the Latin abnegare (seen in abnegate) meaning 'to deny' or 'say no to'. So a self-abnegating person 'denies' their own needs and often puts others first.