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real pain

real pain

24 5.3
Something that causes a lot of trouble and annoyance
  • noun
  • Informal
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  • Finding a parking spot in this busy area is always a real pain.
  • a real pain in the ass
  • a real pain in the butt
  • a real pain in the neck

And even worse, Ward Carlisle, her hunky neighbor, is a real pain in my pumpkin patch.

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Examples

  • You know, I can be a real pain in the ass.

  • Different serial numbers are a real pain in the ass for me.

  • The camera is so heavy it was a real pain after 5 hours.

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  • Most of my clients pay very well indeed, and a few are a real pain in the ass.

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  • The landlord's a real pain in the neck.

  • But it was a real pain in the ass because I listened to them.

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  • On small screens, this is a real pain in the ass.

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  • They can be a real pain, but think about what it must be like for them.

  • It must be a real pain.

  • Finding gluten-free makeup is a real pain, and very few companies in stores are safely gluten-free.

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Antonyms

1.0

A feeling of enjoyment or happiness from something

184 1.2

A thing or feeling that gives great pleasure

How Annoying

nightmare
  • Informal
640 3.5
real pain
  • Informal
24 5.3
nuisance
62 3.6

Surface Forms

real pain singular
real pains plural

Morphology

real + pain

This phrase is compositionally transparent: 'real' functions as an intensifier ('very'/'really') applied to 'pain', and the figurative use of 'pain' for an annoyance is a common, predictable extension. The pattern (intensifier + noun meaning nuisance) is cross-linguistically common and B1 learners who know both words will generally infer the intended meaning.

Etymology

Real pain comes from comparing a strong annoyance to real bodily hurt: imagine a small stone in your shoe that causes real pain and makes everything difficult. That's why we call a person or thing a real pain when they make life hard or are 'an inconvenience'.