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pitying

pitying

1 3.9
Feeling sorry for someone in a way that seems kind but looks down on them
  • adjective
  • /ˈpɪtiɪŋ/
translation icon : compasivo
  • - Why do you give me that pitying look?
  • self-pitying

You want support that is more encouraging than it is pitying.

Examples

  • When I slipped my glasses back down, I noticed Koren staring at me, smiling in a way that seemed partly pitying and partly derisive.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • Her brows knit slightly as she turned a sort of pitying smile upon me.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • His grin: solicitous, pitying, evil.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • He tipped his head with a softer look, curious, almost pitying.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • The man's expression switched from the judgmental look of a prig to the pitying look of the ever-sensible.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • I could see the pitying look on his face as he listened to my troubles.

  • Her pitying tone made it clear she thought I was incapable of handling the situation.

  • He offered a pitying smile when I told him about my struggles at work.

How Sympathetic

compassionate
151 3.7
sympathetic
152 3.4
pitying
1 3.9

Surface Forms

pitying positive

Morphology

pitying = pity (transparent) = pity + ing

Formed from the verb 'pity' plus the participial/adjectival suffix '-ing', yielding the straightforward meaning 'showing pity'.

Etymology

Pitying comes from pity, which comes from the old Latin word pietas meaning 'care' or 'compassion'. So a 'pitying' look or voice shows you 'feel sorry' for someone, which can seem kind but can also feel like you are being looked down on.