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pity

pity

194 1.3
A sad or disappointing situation
  • noun
  • /ˈpɪti/
translation icon : lástima
  • It would be a pity to lose your promotion before you get it... a promotion you have so very carefully planned for.
  • a great pity

There were so many more great tips that it's a pity to end the list here really.

Examples

  • - It's a pity you are only staying for the long weekend.

  • Missing the chance to see that concert was a real pity.

  • There were so many more great tips that it's a pity to end the list here really.

  • Well, it's such a pity.

  • Watching Virginia, their eyes filled with a pity that she had never seen.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • All the more pity, therefore, that the social movement literature has largely overlooked them.

    Academic text (2008)
  • It's a pity that your mother didn't continue.

  • What a pity barbarians have so little time for history.

  • Instead of feeling the openness of compassion, pity says, "Oh, that poor person is suffering!"

    Academic text (1993)
  • Finally, Hans took pity and, clearing his throat, leaned over toward Andrew.

    Fiction book (1990)

Synonyms

shame
vspity
442 1.3

A sad or disappointing situation you wish were different

is broader, adding disappointment and sorrow rather than only regret
crying shame
vspity
  • Informal
6 4.6

A very sad situation that makes people feel sorry

is milder, meaning a regrettable or sorrowful situation without extreme distress

Antonyms

joy
793 1.0

A strong feeling of great happiness

Idioms

more's the pity
  • Informal
1 9.1

A phrase people say to show regret about bad news

Compounds

36 5.2

A feeling of being sorry for yourself and thinking only about your problems

pity fuck
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A sexual encounter in which one person has sex with someone out of pity rather than because they want to

pity pie
  • Informal
9.9

Eating comfort food because you feel sorry for yourself

pity porn
  • Literature
9.9

Stories or images that try to make people feel sorry to get attention and money

9.9

A long feeling of being sorry for yourself and thinking only about your problems

How Regrettable

tragedy
915 3.0
misfortune
75 3.7
pity
194 1.3
disappointment
117 1.6

Surface Forms

pity singular
pities plural
pities plural

Etymology

Pity comes from the Latin pietas and the Old French pitié, words about 'duty' and 'devotion' to others, and it changed to mean a feeling of regret. So when we say 'It's a pity' we mean 'what a shame' or that something is 'disappointing'.