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to pick at

to pick at

3 5.7
Keep finding small faults in someone or their ideas
  • phrasal verb
  • /pɪk æt/
translation icon : buscarle fallos a
  • Even when he tries to clean up his act, she always finds something to pick at him about.
  • pick at each other
  • always pick at
  • pick at little things

Many people try to pick at the shortcomings of their high performers to keep them in line.

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Examples

  • Many people try to pick at the shortcomings of their high performers to keep them in line.

  • The way that people pick at each other and are so cruel in the comment section is so sad.

    Blog text (2)
  • Why are you picking at Jack this way?

    Fiction book (1990)
  • But you keep picking at anyone who calls you out on it, as I have for the last few years.

    Blog text (23)
  • My boss has started picking at me over tiny, stupid things," she said.

    Blog text (1)
  • He picks at me constantly in a way that he finds fun, but I find tiring.

    Blog text (2)
  • Some people just love to pick at minor mistakes instead of appreciating the overall progress.

  • He tends to pick at every detail of her work, which makes collaboration difficult.

  • It's frustrating when others constantly pick at your ideas without offering constructive feedback.

Synonyms

to knock
vsto pick at
  • Informal
593 5.3

To criticize someone or something without a good reason

is repeated petty fault finding rather than casual or informal criticism
to pick on
vsto pick at
  • Informal
156 3.5

To say mean things to someone again and again because they seem weaker

is repeated petty fault finding but not necessarily about targeting the vulnerable
to belittle
vsto pick at
45 5.0

To make someone or something seem not important

is repeated petty fault finding rather than deliberate lowering of worth
to gripe
vsto pick at
  • Informal
38 5.6

To complain repeatedly about small things

is repeated petty fault finding rather than simple ongoing complaint
to disparage
vsto pick at
28 7.7

To speak badly about someone or something to show little respect

is repeated petty fault finding rather than openly disrespectful attack
to harp on
vsto pick at
  • Informal
23 6.7

Talk again and again about the same thing and annoy people

is repeated petty criticism rather than simply persistent discussion or complaining
to nitpick
vsto pick at
21 5.7

To complain about very small unimportant mistakes

is repeated fault finding but not only about tiny details
to pick apart
vsto pick at
  • Informal
14 5.2

To find faults in ideas or work by pointing out small problems

is repeated petty fault finding rather than detailed analytical critique
to take potshots at
vsto pick at
  • Offensive
4 8.1

To make quick, unfair critical remarks about someone or their ideas

is repeated petty fault finding rather than casual mocking or isolated remarks
to niggle
vsto pick at
  • UK
1 8.2

To argue about very small, unimportant details

is repeated petty criticism rather than just worry or fuss
nagging
vsto pick at
1 4.6

Always complaining in an irritating way

is repeated petty criticism rather than general persistent complaining
to pettifog
vsto pick at
  • Archaic
9.9

Argue about small, unimportant details and waste time

is repeated petty fault finding rather than formal legal arguing

Antonyms

2.3

Give someone support and confidence so they try or keep doing something

95 1.6

To say something nice about someone or their work

How Critical

attack
548 3.2
to criticize
701 3.3
to pick at
3 5.7
to complain
1.0

Surface Forms

pick at infinitive
picked at past
picked at past participle
picking at present participle
picks at third person singular

Morphology

pick + at

The primary sense of gently touching or nibbling (eating only a small amount) is directly related to 'pick' (remove small pieces) directed 'at' a target, so a learner who knows the constituents can likely infer the basic meaning. However, the verb+preposition combination extends metaphorically to doing things slowly or reluctantly, a nuance that is less strictly predictable from the parts alone, so full comprehension without exposure is not guaranteed.

Etymology

Pick at may come from the picture of someone picking at a scab or a piece of cloth, always finding tiny faults or loose threads. That's why it means 'to repeatedly criticize or find fault with someone or something'.