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pathetically

pathetically

4 5.1
In a way that makes people feel pity and want to help
  • adverb
  • /pəˈθɛtɪkli/
translation icon : lastimosamente
  • Then her mouth quivered pathetically.
  • sobs pathetically
  • cried pathetically
  • pathetically grateful

Examples

  • Her hair has fallen pathetically over her forehead, and there is no light in her eyes anymore.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • I looked at the crowd, seeing faces I knew, those I didn't, all wrinkled in grief and pity as they gazed at her pathetically small casket, and the minister spoke in solemn tones about resurrection and rebirth.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • I remember watching them on late summer evenings, Matt pathetically trying to hit the ball, catch it, or even just throw it.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • Stripped of clothes, she looked pathetically thin.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • Well, I've been pathetically slow learning that lesson.

  • He'd been loyal and worked hard, almost pathetically grateful for the job Dumont had given him.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • Again I'm ashamed to admit it, but I felt my heart leap when Cornwall lost the scent and stared pathetically at us.

    Fiction book (2002)
  • The child is pathetically left orphaned as the story gestures toward poetic justice, leaving Monsieur Gardie to die in agony by his own hand.

    Academic text (2016)
  • The abandoned puppy looked pathetically at us, hoping for help and a warm home.

  • After losing the match, he sat on the bench, feeling pathetically defeated and alone.

Synonyms

sadly
vspathetically
53 1.0

In an unhappy way because you feel upset

specifically intends to draw pity rather than just show sadness
tearfully
vspathetically
9 3.2

With tears to show that someone feels sad

relies more on provoking pity than on visible tears alone
pitifully
vspathetically
6 3.3

In a way that makes people feel sorry for someone or something

leans more toward actively making observers feel pity instead of sorrow
glumly
vspathetically
6 5.8

In a sad, quiet way that shows someone is unhappy

is more about eliciting pity than showing simple sulkiness
achingly
vspathetically
5 6.6

In a way that shows deep pain or longing

centres more on making others feel pity than internal ache
poignantly
vspathetically
5 7.0

In a way that makes you feel moved or very sad

is narrower in aiming specifically to make others feel pity
mournfully
vspathetically
4 4.7

In a sad way that shows grief

focuses more on prompting pity and compassionate reaction
plaintively
vspathetically
4 6.7

In a sad, soft way that sounds like crying

aims more at eliciting pity than merely showing mournful sound
touchingly
vspathetically
2 5.1

In a way that makes you feel sad or moved

tilts more toward prompting pity and compassionate response
dejectedly
vspathetically
2 6.5

In a sad, disappointed way

tends to make others feel pity rather than note mere gloom
sorrowfully
vspathetically
1 4.6

In a sad way that shows a person is sorry

aims more to make observers feel pity or compassionate concern
piteously
vspathetically
  • Literature
1 7.1

In a sad way that makes people feel sorry

is the same but emphasizes causing observers to feel pity
pityingly
vspathetically
1 5.3

In a way that shows you feel sorry for someone

is about causing pity in observers rather than showing it oneself
dolefully
vspathetically
1 7.2

In a sad way that shows you are unhappy

is more about creating pity than simply mourning
pitiably
vspathetically
1 6.9

In a way that makes people feel sorry for someone

focuses more on prompting pity in others rather than plain sadness
desolately
vspathetically
1 7.5

In a way that shows great loneliness and sadness

is narrower in focusing on prompting pity rather than isolation
melancholically
vspathetically
7.7

In a sad and thoughtful way

is more about causing pity rather than introspective melancholy
dolorously
vspathetically
  • Literature
9.9

In a very sad way

is primarily about causing pity rather than just mourning

Antonyms

1 4.1

In a way that makes people feel hopeful and want to try

How Pitiful

pitifully
6 3.3
touchingly
2 5.1
pathetically
4 5.1
sadly
53 1.0

Surface Forms

pathetically positive

Morphology

pathetically = pathetic (transparent) = pathetic + ly

The word is transparently derived from 'pathetic' with the addition of the adverbial suffix '-ly'.

Etymology

Pathetically comes from the Greek root pathos meaning 'feeling' or 'suffering', and this is the same root you see in sympathy. So when something is done 'pathetically' in the second sense, it means it moves people to pity or sadness, exactly as the root 'feeling' suggests.