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to overstep the mark

to overstep the mark

3 6.2
To behave in a way people think is not acceptable
  • phrasal verb
  • UK
translation icon : pasarse de la raya
  • If you keep making personal remarks, you'll overstep the mark and hurt someone's feelings.

But what I'm saying to you is that's what I, you know, they overstepped the mark.

Examples

  • During the meeting, she overstepped the mark by criticizing the manager in front of everyone.

  • I might have overstepped the mark.

  • I can't forgive myself for overstepping the mark.

  • Effective influencers always enlist the support of their boss and are careful not to overstep the mark.

    Blog text (8)
  • Although I agree with a lot of Willis's sentiments, I think he has overstepped the mark in a few places here.

    Blog text (23)
  • He knew he was overstepping the mark with all these questions, but he just couldn't help it.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • His comments were inappropriate, and I believe he really overstepped the mark this time.

Synonyms

to exceed
vsto overstep the mark
255 4.1

To be greater than a set amount or beyond what people expect

concerns breaking social appropriateness rather than numeric or measured limits
to go beyond
vsto overstep the mark
201 3.6

To exceed a limit or what people expect

targets social or situational acceptability rather than general limits or standards
to go too far
vsto overstep the mark
201 4.2

Say or do something that is not acceptable and may hurt people

is focused on appropriateness within a particular situation rather than general excess
to cross the line
vsto overstep the mark
  • Informal
89 4.5

Act in a way that goes too far and is not right

is used for going beyond what is proper in context
to overdo
vsto overstep the mark
58 3.6

Do something too much, more than needed

focuses on appropriateness breach in a situation rather than sheer excess
to go overboard
vsto overstep the mark
  • Informal
45 4.4

To do something more than is needed

highlights crossing social bounds in a situation rather than general extremity
to overreach
vsto overstep the mark
15 6.2

To go beyond what you are allowed to do

is about behaving inappropriately in a situation, not only abusing authority
to transgress
vsto overstep the mark
12 7.8

To do something that breaks a law, rule, or your idea of right and wrong

is about social inappropriateness in a situation rather than formal rulebreaking
to overstep
vsto overstep the mark
11 5.9

To go beyond a limit or rule

is about breaching social appropriateness in a specific situation
to step over the line
vsto overstep the mark
  • Informal
10 5.0

Go beyond what people consider acceptable

highlights social inappropriateness in context rather than any boundary crossing
to cross the red line
vsto overstep the mark
  • Literature
1 6.3

To go past a limit people set and cause serious problems

expresses inappropriate action in context but without necessarily severe outcomes
to take too far
vsto overstep the mark
1 5.3

To go beyond what is reasonable or acceptable

emphasizes a one-time inappropriate act in a situation rather than continued extension
to overspeak
vsto overstep the mark
7.5

To talk too much and say things you should not say

covers inappropriate actions or speech broadly beyond only excessive talking

How Acceptable

to cross the line
  • Informal
89 4.5
to overstep the mark
  • UK
3 6.2
pushing boundaries
  • Informal
3 6.0
to behave
747 1.0

Surface Forms

overstep the mark infinitive

Morphology

overstep + the + mark

The meaning 'to go beyond what is acceptable' is directly derivable from combining 'overstep' (to transgress or go beyond) with 'mark' (a limit or point). This compositional pattern (go beyond + limit) is transparent and cross-linguistically common, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents should understand the MWE.

Etymology

Overstep the mark comes from the simple image of someone stepping past a clear line or mark on the ground, and to overstep that mark meant moving past a set limit. So it now means 'to go beyond what is acceptable'.