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on the outs

on the outs

8 8.4
Not friendly and not speaking with someone
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : en desacuerdo
  • After their disagreement, Ian felt like he was on the outs with the team.
  • guy on the outs
  • on the outs with my tribe

And then she's kind of on the outs with the the witches.

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Examples

  • Now the Islamist AK party is in charge, and relations with Israel are on the outs.

    Blog text (34)
  • I've been on the outs with the man for years, so I'm a little surprised to hear from him.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • I thought you and Sarah were on the outs.

  • I was more on the outs with the in crowd, you know.

  • Harry, she said, is on the outs in his department.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • And it might put them on the outs with their hero.

    Blog text (31)
  • I am not on the outs with management.

    Blog text (25)
  • I've always been on the outs with my sister.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • They were on the outs.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • Well, I know you're on the outs with Lisa again.

Synonyms

out of it
vson the outs
  • Informal
19 7.2

Feeling left out of a group or activity

involves conflict or estrangement rather than mere exclusion
out in the cold
vson the outs
  • Informal
16 7.4

Left out by a group of people

is about disagreement or estrangement rather than being ignored
at outs
vson the outs
  • Archaic
9.6

Not friendly with someone because of an argument

is about estrangement rather than direct active conflict

Antonyms

15 3.3

Getting along well with someone

Surface Forms

on the outs positive

Morphology

on + the + outs

The phrase includes the obvious preposition 'on' and the root 'out', which can suggest exclusion or being outside a group, so a learner might partially infer a sense of not being included or in disagreement. However, the nominalized plural form 'the outs' and the idiomatic pattern 'on the outs (with someone)' are not fully compositional or universally transparent, so the exact meaning (estrangement/bad terms) is unlikely to be reliably derived by a B1 learner without prior exposure.

Etymology

On the outs comes from the simple image of someone left out, standing outside a group while others are together. So, the phrase now means 'in disagreement' or 'not part of the group'.