not going to lie
- idiom
- Slang
- I'm not going to lie, this is the first episode I've watched of this season.
- I'm not going to lie, she said
- Okay, I'm not going to lie
- I'm not going to lie anymore
So, JD, I'm not going to lie to you.
- So, JD, I'm not going to lie to you.
- I mean, I'm not going to lie, it's a big, big thing.
- And also, I'm not going to lie, right, we got sent a crate each.
- I have some fears, I'm not going to lie.
Examples
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You know, I'm not gonna lie, I didn't see this one coming.
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I'm not going to lie, I was surprised by how well the movie turned out.
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I am not going to lie, I saw them live once and it was a good time.
Blog text (25) -
So this deep brown, I'm not going to lie, is not that bad.
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OK, I'm not going to lie to you.
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I mean, I'm not going to lie, it's a big, big thing.
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And I'm not going to lie, the progress has been very good.
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OK, I'm not going to lie, I'm feeling pretty good about this.
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And I'm not going to lie, it is exhausting.
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All right, all right, I'm not going to lie, the convertible is nice.
Synonyms
Say what really happened without hiding facts or lying
Say you are being honest before you speak
To say something that is true even if it is surprising
You say it to show you are honest, even if it sounds awkward
To say firmly that what you say is true
Antonyms
How Sincere
Surface Forms
Morphology
The phrase literally combines negation + future-prospective 'going to' + 'lie' so a learner who knows the constituents can infer 'I will not tell a lie,' i.e. 'I will be honest.' It functions as a straightforward discourse marker meaning 'to be honest' and follows common grammatical patterns (going to = future), so the sense is directly derivable from the parts.
Etymology
Not going to lie comes from the simple promise 'I am not going to lie, I will tell the truth'. People say it before a direct or surprising comment to show they are being 'honest', so the listener trusts what follows.