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to messing

to messing

3 3.5
To act in a careless, playful way instead of doing something important
  • verb
  • /ˈmɛsɪŋ/
  • Informal
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  • And why are you messing with some other stuff?

Just be just just have some almost fun messing with your beliefs.

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Examples

  • AM I MESSING UP YOUR CONCENTRATION, ME BEING HERE LIKE THIS?

  • YOU'RE STILL MESSING AROUND WITH ELECTRONICS AND MICROCHIPS, RIGHT?

  • And we thought, well, if you think we're messing about, we're not.

  • You start messing with them and you will push them out.

  • And I'm messing with that luck, right?

  • People need our help, get busy, stop messing around, you know, kind of messaging.

  • Let me apologize right away to Jared for messing up that start.

  • Kittens back there messing with the Garland like it's her job.

  • I don't need wild donkeys messing with my crops.

  • The children are just messing around in the park instead of doing their homework.

Synonyms

to mess around
vsto messing
  • Informal
111 4.1

To spend time doing playful or unplanned activities

is the informal term for the same careless, playful time-wasting action
to be silly
vsto messing
88 2.1

Act in a foolish or playful way without taking things seriously

emphasizes careless time-wasting and lack of seriousness rather than pure foolishness
to fuck around
vsto messing
  • Offensive
75 9.9

To waste time or act carelessly

is similar but less coarse and slightly milder in tone
to fool around
vsto messing
  • Informal
46 3.6

Act in a silly, playful way instead of working

stresses lighthearted carelessness rather than deliberate irresponsibility
to goof
vsto messing
  • Informal
42 4.6

To act silly and playful without doing anything serious

focuses on careless play rather than productive or serious action
to kid around
vsto messing
  • Informal
19 5.1

Act in a playful, joking way without being serious

is similar but can also include wasting time without jokes
to diddle
vsto messing
  • Informal
6 7.2

To waste time by doing small unimportant things

puts slightly more weight on time-wasting as careless behavior
to play fast and loose
vsto messing
  • Informal
6 8.0

Act in a careless way by ignoring rules and other people's feelings

focuses on playful or idle conduct rather than rule-breaking irresponsibility
to monkey around
vsto messing
  • Informal
4 7.3

Waste time by acting silly instead of working

is a broader label for careless, playful, or time-wasting conduct
to piss around
vsto messing
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To waste time doing unimportant or silly things instead of doing something important

covers playful carelessness but with extra emphasis on lost time
to play silly buggers
vsto messing
  • Offensive
1 9.9

Act in a foolish, annoying way instead of being serious

is more neutral, highlighting playful carelessness rather than annoyance
to zarking around
vsto messing
  • Slang
9.9

To act in a silly, playful way instead of being serious

matches that casual playfulness but is more widely used
to fribble
vsto messing
  • Archaic
9.9

To waste time by doing silly, unimportant things

is similar but stresses the playful careless side of wasting time
to dweebling about
vsto messing
  • Offensive
9.9

Act in a silly, aimless way and waste time

focuses more on playful carelessness than absent-minded drifting
to piffle
vsto messing
  • Informal
9.9

To talk or act in a silly, unimportant way

focuses more on playful or wasteful behaviour rather than mere triviality
to act like a tosser
vsto messing
  • Offensive
9.9

To behave rudely or foolishly in a way that annoys others

is less about bad judgment and more about light, careless play

How Serious

dereliction
  • Formal
16 8.4
to messing
  • Informal
3 3.5
dawdling
4 6.5
goofing off
  • Informal
13 7.7

Surface Forms

mess infinitive
messed past
messed past participle
messing present participle
messes third person singular

Morphology

messing = mess (transparent) = mess + ing

Standard gerund/participle formation from the verb 'mess'; learners who know 'mess' can predict 'messing'.

Etymology

Messing comes from the everyday word mess, which once meant a shared meal and later came to mean 'a dirty or untidy state', and you can see the same root in messy. So, to be messing is to make a mess or 'play around' and not take something seriously.