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less of a man

less of a man

1 8.9
Feeling weaker or less manly than other men
  • idiom
  • Offensive
translation icon : emasculado
  • After failing to fix the car, he felt less of a man for not being able to provide for his family.
  • feel less of a man

Examples

  • He worried that losing his job would make him feel less of a man in front of his family.

  • Some people believe that crying makes you less of a man, but that's just a stereotype.

  • The injury left him feeling less of a man, though his friends reassured him otherwise.

  • He felt less of a man after losing his job.

  • Don't let anyone make you feel less of a man!

  • When he struggled to lift the heavy box, an embarrassment washed over him, making him feel less of a man.

  • She consoled him, reminding him that losing his job does not make him less of a man.

Synonyms

unmanly
vsless of a man
4 6.8

Not showing the strength or courage people expect from men

is about feeling inferior rather than simply lacking those qualities
emasculated
vsless of a man
  • Offensive
1 7.5

Feeling less strong or less like a man

is a general feeling of inferiority about not being fully masculine

Antonyms

79 3.0

Showing strength, courage, or a strong will often seen as men's qualities

How Masculine

macho
  • Informal
99 6.7
manly
79 3.0
less of a man
  • Offensive
1 8.9
unmanly
4 6.8
effeminate
  • Offensive
15 7.5

Surface Forms

Morphology

less + of + a + man

Themeaning is directly compositional: 'less' (a lower degree) combined with 'a man' yields 'not as much a man' or 'reduced manliness/status', so the inference of feeling inferior is derivable from the parts. This comparative construction is common cross-linguistically, so a B1 learner who knows the constituent words will ordinarily understand the intended sense.

Etymology

Less of a man may come from a simple image: imagine someone missing the strength or social role people expect from a man, so they are a little less of one. That's why it means 'to feel inferior' or 'not fully masculine'.