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kissing cousin

kissing cousin

1 7.7
A distant relative or close family friend you are fond of, not a romantic partner
  • noun
  • /ˈkɪsɪŋ ˈkʌzən/
  • Archaic
translation icon : primo besucón
  • So what if they were kissing cousins?

So what would you tell an entrepreneur about, you know, you know, perseverance and delusion are kissing cousins, right?

Examples

  • Actually, we're kissing cousins on our Quaker brother's sister's side.

  • My grandmother often reminisces about her kissing cousin who lived in the same town during her childhood.

  • Although they are not related by blood, they treat each other like kissing cousins, always sharing secrets and laughter.

  • During family gatherings, cousins often become more like kissing cousins, forming bonds that feel as close as family.

Synonyms

cousin
vskissing cousin
1.0

A child of your aunt or uncle

covers affectionate or distant ties, not just the specific child of an aunt
relative
vskissing cousin
645 1.0

A person who is in your family by blood or marriage

includes distant family or close friends with affectionate familiarity

Antonyms

1.0

A person you do not know

How Close

sibling
253 1.0
relative
645 1.0
cousin
1.0
kissing cousin
  • Archaic
1 7.7
acquaintance
114 3.5
stranger
1.0

Surface Forms

Morphology

kissing + cousin

The components 'kissing' (affection) and 'cousin' (relative) give a learner a plausible clue that the phrase refers to a relatively close or familiar relative/friend, so part of the meaning is derivable from the words. However, the expression is idiomatic with cultural/taboo nuances (possible literal/romantic misinterpretation and metaphorical uses like 'closely related'), so the exact non-romantic, idiomatic sense is not fully predictable without exposure.

Etymology

The idiom kissing cousin may come from family gatherings where a cousin you did not see often would be greeted with a quick kiss on the cheek. So, it now means a 'distant relative' or 'close friend' who is warm and familiar, but not a romantic partner.