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in the family way

in the family way

2 8.4
A woman who is pregnant
  • idiom
  • Archaic
translation icon : embarazada
  • I wouldn't be surprised to hear she's in the family way.
  • get in the family way

Examples

  • She is clearly in the family way, and everyone is excited for her.

  • Some boys might have run out on you when they found you were pregnant, but when I told Pink I was in the family way, he was so excited he hugged me and said we'd run off to any place.

    Fiction book (1990)
  • I am in the family way.

  • Well... she's in the family way.

  • You're not in the family way, are you?

  • In my twenties, I guess I was lucky I didn't get in the family way, for all the carrying on I did.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • When she told her friends she was in the family way, they were thrilled to celebrate with her.

  • I noticed Maria is in the family way; she hasn't been drinking wine at dinner.

Synonyms

to have a bun in the oven
vsin the family way
  • Informal
1 8.4

To be pregnant and expecting a baby

is more neutral and polite rather than playful or idiomatic
up the duff
vsin the family way
  • Slang
1 9.9

A woman who is expecting a baby

is neutral and nonregional rather than British informal
preggers
vsin the family way
  • Slang
1 9.4

Having a baby growing inside you

is more neutral rather than slangy or shortened

Antonyms

nonpregnant
  • Specialized
2.9

Not carrying a baby inside the body

Surface Forms

Morphology

in + the + family + way

The literal parts 'in' + 'the' + 'family' + 'way' yield a sense of being in a familial manner or route, which does not directly indicate pregnancy. This phrase is an older euphemism whose meaning ('pregnant') is idiomatic and not predictable from the constituents, so a B1 learner knowing the words would likely not infer the intended sense.

Etymology

In the family way may come from the simple image of a baby being 'on the way' into the family, so the woman is 'in' that way. That's why the phrase is a polite way to say 'pregnant'.