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hot and heavy

hot and heavy

12 7.7
People feel very strong romantic or sexual feelings for each other
  • idiom
  • NSFW
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  • Things are getting hot and heavy!
  • get hot and heavy
  • things got hot and heavy
  • started off hot and heavy

And opposite is going hot and heavy really fast.

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Examples

  • So things are getting pretty hot and heavy.

  • Things were great, hot and heavy, then he broke things off with no warning whatsoever.

    Blog text (21)
  • And I think that with us knowing that hot and heavy relationships do come at a price.

  • You guys were real hot and heavy in high school.

  • Well, you lead me on and get all hot and heavy, and then, what, you just change your mind?

  • And it got me thinking of us... how two years ago we started off hot and heavy.

  • Jack Mac and Sarah are hot and heavy.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • After that meeting in Seattle, things got hot and heavy.

    Blog text (31)
  • So you see many relationships that start off hot and heavy and they fizzle out big time.

  • Their relationship became hot and heavy after just a few dates, with intense emotions involved.

Synonyms

hot
vshot and heavy
580 1.6

Full of strong activity and excitement

applies to serious romantic or sexual situations rather than general activity or appearance
white-hot
vshot and heavy
11 5.8

Very strong feeling or energy that shows great passion and draws attention

is focused on intense feeling within romantic or sexual relationships
hot-blooded
vshot and heavy
9 5.6

Easily feeling strong anger or excitement

is about personal temperament rather than intense romantic or sexual relationship focus
hot and bothered
vshot and heavy
  • NSFW
8 8.4

Feeling sexually excited and physically attracted to someone

is about intense serious relationships rather than brief physical arousal
red-hot
vshot and heavy
6 4.0

Full of strong feeling or interest

is used for intense romantic or sexual situations rather than general excitement

Antonyms

14 3.5

Happy and not serious

4 5.4

Not friendly and showing little interest

How Passionate

hot and heavy
  • NSFW
12 7.7
ardent
35 6.3
passionate
359 2.8
flirty
23 3.7
warm
321 1.0
friendly
763 1.0

Surface Forms

hot and heavy positive

Morphology

hot + and + heavy

The components 'hot' (sexually attractive) and 'heavy' (intense/serious) together point toward a sexually intense or passionate relationship, so the overall meaning is partially derivable from the parts. However, the collocational nuance of 'hot and heavy' as a fixed phrase emphasizing sexual passion is somewhat idiomatic and may not be fully predictable to a B1 learner without prior exposure, so it is not fully transparent.

Etymology

The idiom hot and heavy may come from the image of a room that is hot (full of heat or excitement) and heavy (the air feels thick and close), where people show strong feelings. So, it means 'very intense' or 'passionate', often about a romantic or sexual relationship.