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helpmeet

helpmeet

1 9.9
A person who supports and cares for their partner
  • noun
  • /ˈhɛlpmɪt/
  • Archaic
translation icon : compañero
  • It certainly sounds as if Susan's realizing her life's helpmeet is no help and is not meeting her needs.

Examples

  • I wish that list included the faithful wives and mothers who were helpmeets and world changers through their salty service in their callings at home.

    Blog text (26)
  • Del. said, "God gave woman her rights, and in Eden she stood, not man's superior as some would now contend, but his equal, and competent to fill her position as his companion and helpmeet.

    Academic text (2004)
  • "A helpmeet," May Reedy had told her she was.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • In this, I do wonder often what kind of things I should mention to him as his helpmeet and what kind of things I should keep to myself.

    Blog text (19)
  • A good helpmeet, not sickly, not pining.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • A perfect helpmeet.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • He said the wife was made a little lower than the husband to be a helpmeet to him, and I ought to return home and stop acting contrary.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • College cannot teach me or my sisters how to be future homemakers or helpmeets for our future husbands.

    Blog text (34)
  • She railed and stormed about loyalty and said being a helpmeet worked both ways; he utterly failed to understand her being with him and all it implied.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • She has always been a wonderful helpmeet, supporting me through both challenges and triumphs.

Synonyms

helper
vshelpmeet
79 1.0

A person who does tasks for others, for example at events

focuses on being a supportive partner rather than only task assistance
helpmate
vshelpmeet
  • Archaic
3 7.0

A person who helps and supports their partner in life

is about being a supportive partner rather than just helping
assister
vshelpmeet
3.0

A person who helps another with a task or need

is about being a partner who supports in a relationship, not just offering help
assistor
vshelpmeet
4.3

A person or thing that helps someone with a task

is specifically a partner who gives supportive help, not an object or device

Antonyms

907 2.1

A person who competes against another in a game or argument

21 5.7

A thing that makes it difficult to do something, like an injury or traffic

How Supportive

helpmeet
  • Archaic
1 9.9
assistant
833 1.0
helper
79 1.0

Surface Forms

helpmeet singular
helpmeets plural

Etymology

Helpmeet comes from the old English parts help and meet, where meet once meant 'fit' or 'suitable' rather than 'to meet' as we often use today. So a helpmeet is a partner who is a 'fitting' helper, a supportive spouse or companion.