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to groom

to groom

6 9.8
To gain a child's trust to sexually abuse them
  • verb
  • /ɡrum/
  • Offensive
: [OFENSIVO] ganar la confianza de alguien para explotarlo sexualmente
  • I was abused and and and groomed for nearly a decade by successive men.

So Peter was saying he was raped, he was sexually molested, groomed throughout this whole process.

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Examples

  • Many "tricky people" who are grooming children take many small baby steps to get where they want.

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  • Nine times out of ten, they are just grooming you for sex, whether you want it or not.

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  • And then you took your offer back and told me that you were going to groom me.

  • What he was willing to settle for was a chance to groom her.

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  • Yeah, I feel like I was just groomed right there, right?

  • No, we groomed you since you were a child, okay?

  • So, he started grooming me in order to preach.

  • You were all three groomed much like a pedophile grooms a victim.

  • As a worst-case outcome, he may be grooming you for sexual predatory behavior.

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  • The police warned that many predators groom children online by gaining their trust before exploiting them.

Antonyms

∞ 1.0

To keep someone or something safe from harm

55 3.7

To protect someone or something from harm

Compounds

A couple who are getting married at a wedding

2 3.0

A man who will soon get married

How Manipulative

to exploit
289 5.6
to manipulate
367 6.1
to groom
  • Offensive
6 9.8
to cultivate
91 4.1
to befriend
58 3.0

Surface Forms

groom infinitive
groomed past
groomed past participle
grooming present participle
grooms third person singular

Etymology

The harmful meaning of groom — to gain someone's trust in order to abuse or exploit them — comes from the general idea of 'preparing' someone but used in a bad way. So when people say someone was groomed, they mean the person was slowly prepared and tricked so they could be hurt or exploited.