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give and take

give and take

12 3.1
A situation where people both accept and give up things to make an agreement
  • idiom
translation icon : dar y recibir
  • A successful negotiation requires a healthy dose of give and take from both parties.
  • the give and take of dialogue

I I love when friendships are like give and take.

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Examples

  • These relationships require give and take, just like any other kind of relationship.

  • Collaboration and coalition building require give and take, flexibility, and a willingness to be accommodating.

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  • So I feel like it should be a give and take in the relationship.

  • I like a relationship with a bit of give and take.

  • It's give and take if we are to survive.

  • Like any other portion of your relationship, there should be give and take.

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  • I mean, give and take, that's a part of every healthy relationship.

  • True communication, both online and in person, has elements of both give and take.

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  • To know that in a healthy relationship, the so-called give and take feels natural and not transactional.

  • Kindness, compassion, empathy, respect, something we call mutuality, that give and take that back and forth.

Synonyms

compromise
vsgive and take
363 2.5

An agreement where each side gives up something to reach a solution

is broader, covering ongoing mutual favors and exchanges beyond formal agreements
reciprocity
vsgive and take
17 7.1

Giving and getting help or benefits so both sides gain

focuses on negotiated mutual concessions rather than a general principle of exchange
give-and-take
vsgive and take
6 3.8

A friendly exchange of ideas and jokes

is used for practical mutual concessions or favors in relationships or negotiations
horse trading
vsgive and take
  • Informal
3 5.2

Tough negotiation where both sides give up things to reach a deal

is usually less adversarial and refers to routine mutual exchanges rather than hard bargaining

Antonyms

50 3.0

Caring only about yourself and not about other people

How Cooperative

cooperation
443 2.5
give and take
12 3.1
negotiation
  • Formal
859 3.5
discussion
1.4
conflict
397 2.3

Surface Forms

give and take singular

Morphology

give + and + take

The meaning 'mutual compromise or exchange' is directly built from the literal verbs 'give' and 'take' joined by 'and'—the notion of reciprocal giving and receiving is straightforwardly compositional. This reciprocity pattern is common across languages, so a B1 learner who knows the constituents would readily infer the MWE's meaning.

Etymology

Give and take comes from the idea of a steady back-and-forth, like one person gives and the other takes in a friendly trade. That's why as a noun it means 'a mutual exchange' or 'a compromise' in a relationship or discussion.