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give an inch and take a mile

give an inch and take a mile

7.3
Allowing a small favor makes someone try to take much more than you wanted
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : dar un dedo y tomar un brazo
  • She warned him not to give an inch and take a mile when negotiating the contract.

Examples

  • Parents often complain that if they give an inch and take a mile, their children will keep demanding more.

  • If you give an inch and take a mile, they will always want more.

  • If you give an inch and take a mile with your boss, you might soon find yourself in trouble.

  • Don't give an inch and take a mile to your kids!

  • If you give an inch and take a mile with your boss, you might soon find yourself in trouble.

  • Parents often complain that if they give an inch and take a mile, their children will keep demanding more.

  • Don't give an inch and take a mile with your friends; they might start asking for even more favors.

Synonyms

to give away the store
vsgive an inch and take a mile
  • Informal
3 8.1

Agree to too much in a deal and lose money

is about others taking much more after a small allowed concession
to take a mile
vsgive an inch and take a mile
  • Informal
1 8.4

Use a small favor to get much more

is the tendency to push further after a small concession
to take for all one has got
vsgive an inch and take a mile
  • Informal
9.9

To trick someone and steal all their money and belongings

is about expanding small concessions rather than total exploitation

Surface Forms

Morphology

give + an + inch + and + take + a + mile

The phrase contrasts a very small unit ('inch') with a much larger one ('mile') combined with 'give' and 'take', so a learner who knows the words can infer the basic idea that a small concession leads to a much larger appropriation. However, the expression is a conventionalized proverb with a pragmatic nuance about exploitation that is not entirely predictable from the parts alone, making it only partially transparent to a B1 learner.

Etymology

Give an inch and take a mile paints a picture of someone who is given a tiny measure, an inch, and then takes a very large one, a mile. That's why it means 'if you allow a small favour or little freedom, people may try to take much more'.