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to give a speaking to

to give a speaking to

6.9
To tell someone they behaved badly in a serious way
  • phrasal verb
  • UK
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  • After the incident on the playground, the principal gave a speaking to the whole class.

Examples

  • The teacher had to give a speaking to several students after the noisy lunch break.

  • If you’re late again, your boss will give a speaking to you for sure.

  • Don't give a speaking to him without understanding the full story!

  • The manager decided to give a speaking to the team about their performance.

  • After the incident on the playground, the principal gave a speaking to the whole class.

  • If you’re late again, your boss will give a speaking to you for sure.

  • The manager decided to give a speaking to the team about their performance.

Synonyms

to lecture
vsto give a speaking to
89 4.6

To give someone a long serious talk that warns or scolds them about what they did

is formal scolding focused on censure rather than extended moral talk
to scold
vsto give a speaking to
55 2.2

Speak angrily to someone who has done something wrong

is a formal reprimand rather than general angry speaking
to let him have it
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
44 8.1

To tell someone angrily that they did something wrong

is formal and disapproving but usually less emotionally fierce
to reprimand
vsto give a speaking to
  • Formal
33 6.1

To tell someone they did something wrong, usually by a person in charge

is similar but used as a general formal scolding phrase
to rebuke
vsto give a speaking to
  • Formal
26 6.9

To tell someone firmly that you do not approve of their actions

is a formal expression of disapproval with milder tone
to tell off
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
13 4.2

To speak angrily to someone for doing something wrong

is more formal and disapproving than direct angry speech
to give someone the business
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
5 8.3

Tell someone angrily that they did something wrong

is formal and disapproving without confrontational informality
to call on the carpet
vsto give a speaking to
  • Archaic
3 7.9

To tell someone strongly that they have done something wrong, often in front of others

is a formal scolding phrase used beyond strict authority contexts
to give someone what for
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
1 8.7

Tell someone angrily that they did something wrong

is the formal disapproving phrase rather than informal forceful scolding
to call down
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
1 6.8

Tell someone angrily that they did something wrong

is formal and disapproving rather than openly angry or public
to give what-for
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
9.5

To scold someone strongly for doing something wrong

is a more formal, measured expression of disapproval
to give an earful
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
7.7

Angrily tell someone they did something wrong

is formal and disapproving, typically shorter and less loud
to give (someone) a piece of one's mind
vsto give a speaking to
  • Informal
7.5

Tell someone angrily that you are upset with them

is formal and institutional rather than personal and forceful

Antonyms

161 1.0

Words or actions that show admiration for someone

67 4.4

To praise someone or something for good work

How Harsh

to berate
36 7.2
to reprimand
  • Formal
33 6.1
to give a speaking to
  • UK
6.9
to admonish
31 6.8

Surface Forms

give a speaking to infinitive
giving a speaking to present participle
gives a speaking to third person singular
given a speaking to past participle

Morphology

give + a + speaking + to

The literal constituents ('give' + 'a' + 'speaking' + 'to') would more naturally yield ‘give a speech’ or ‘speak to someone,’ so a B1 learner is unlikely to reliably infer the idiomatic sense ‘reprimand’ without exposure. The expression is a near-idiomatic variant of 'give someone a talking-to' and contains a partial semantic link (speaking/talking) but the specific sense of scolding is not fully predictable, so it is only partially transparent.

Etymology

Give a speaking to comes from the idea of giving someone a short, stern talk. Imagine a teacher giving a speaking to a pupil—standing in front and talking firmly to correct them, so it now means 'to reprimand'.