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to get a grip on

to get a grip on

13 4.0
Start to understand and control your feelings or a hard situation
  • phrasal verb
  • Informal
translation icon : controlar
  • It's important to get a grip on your emotions during difficult times.

If I can name it, I can get a grip on it.

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Examples

  • You can't turn the clock back, so why not get a grip on reality for a change?

    Blog text (32)
  • But you'll have to get a grip on yourself, nonetheless.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • We need to get a grip on reality here.

  • That night I got a grip on life again.

  • Please get a grip on yourself, Doctor.

  • The thought helped her to get a grip on herself.

    Fiction book (1992)
  • And that's part of the problem is that we have to get a grip on reality and where we're headed.

  • And your life will only get worse if you don't get a grip on your anger issues.

  • I definitely think that it's become useful for me, and I've gotten a grip on it enough to really use it to accomplish goals.

  • So, Stephen, let's get a grip on ourselves and try to have a conversation in a calm, civilized, and dare I say, Christian manner.

Synonyms

to take control
vsto get a grip on
227 3.5

Start to have power and make decisions about something

focuses on personal understanding and emotional control rather than formal power
to get a grip
vsto get a grip on
  • Informal
56 5.6

To calm down and control your feelings

covers starting to understand and control situations as well as feelings
to come to grips
vsto get a grip on
30 5.5

Start to accept and deal with a difficult situation

includes starting to control feelings or circumstances, not only understanding
to have a handle on
vsto get a grip on
16 4.2

To understand something well enough to deal with it

adds the idea of beginning to control emotions or the situation
to get to grips with
vsto get a grip on
  • UK
3 5.4

To begin to understand and deal with a difficult subject or problem

starts to add emotional control as well as understanding of a situation
to get to grips
vsto get a grip on
  • UK
2 5.7

To begin to deal with or understand a difficult problem

is more about also gaining control over feelings while understanding

Antonyms

1.0

Choose not to pay attention to someone or something

To think something is true when it is not

How Controlled

to master
191 4.1
to get a grip on
  • Informal
13 4.0
to manage
239 2.3

Surface Forms

get a grip on infinitive
getting a grip on present participle
gets a grip on third person singular
got a grip on past participle

Morphology

get + a + grip + on

The meaning is directly derivable from the parts: 'get' (obtain) + 'grip' (control/hold) + 'on' (over/target), so a learner who knows the constituent words can infer 'obtain control or understanding of' the target. The construction follows a common, cross-linguistic metaphor of gaining a 'hold' on something and the article 'a' does not obscure compositionality, making it immediately comprehensible at B1.

Etymology

The phrase get a grip on comes from the image of grabbing something with a strong grip to hold it steady, like grabbing a rope or steering wheel when things are rough. So, get a grip on now means 'start to understand and control' a problem or your feelings.