to get a grip on
- phrasal verb
- Informal
- It's important to get a grip on your emotions during difficult times.
If I can name it, I can get a grip on it.
- If I can name it, I can get a grip on it.
- And that's part of the problem is that we have to get a grip on reality and where we're headed.
- I definitely think that it's become useful for me, and I've gotten a grip on it enough to really use it to accomplish goals.
Examples
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You can't turn the clock back, so why not get a grip on reality for a change?
Blog text (32) -
But you'll have to get a grip on yourself, nonetheless.
Fiction book (1997) -
We need to get a grip on reality here.
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That night I got a grip on life again.
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Please get a grip on yourself, Doctor.
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The thought helped her to get a grip on herself.
Fiction book (1992) -
And that's part of the problem is that we have to get a grip on reality and where we're headed.
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And your life will only get worse if you don't get a grip on your anger issues.
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I definitely think that it's become useful for me, and I've gotten a grip on it enough to really use it to accomplish goals.
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So, Stephen, let's get a grip on ourselves and try to have a conversation in a calm, civilized, and dare I say, Christian manner.
Synonyms
Start to have power and make decisions about something
To calm down and control your feelings
Start to accept and deal with a difficult situation
To understand something well enough to deal with it
To begin to understand and deal with a difficult subject or problem
To begin to deal with or understand a difficult problem
Antonyms
How Controlled
Surface Forms
Morphology
The meaning is directly derivable from the parts: 'get' (obtain) + 'grip' (control/hold) + 'on' (over/target), so a learner who knows the constituent words can infer 'obtain control or understanding of' the target. The construction follows a common, cross-linguistic metaphor of gaining a 'hold' on something and the article 'a' does not obscure compositionality, making it immediately comprehensible at B1.
Etymology
The phrase get a grip on comes from the image of grabbing something with a strong grip to hold it steady, like grabbing a rope or steering wheel when things are rough. So, get a grip on now means 'start to understand and control' a problem or your feelings.