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friends with benefits

friends with benefits

5 7.4
Friends who have sex but are not a romantic couple
  • noun
  • NSFW
translation icon : amigos con derechos
  • Many college students enter into friends with benefits arrangements to avoid the complications of dating.
  • the whole friends with benefits
  • friends with benefits thing

Well, if you must know, we are friends with benefits, if you know what I mean.

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Examples

  • I don't understand how you can have friends with benefits and have a girlfriend.

  • They decided to keep their relationship casual and become friends with benefits.

  • Well, if you must know, we are friends with benefits, if you know what I mean.

  • Would you be open to a friends with benefits situation?

  • Will my "friends with benefits" ever become something more?

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  • You know, a great many people are having these one night stands and friends with benefits and living together before they marry.

  • Your friends with benefits arrangement is going to harm you emotionally.

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  • You seem to dislike something about the current friends-with-benefits situation.

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  • We used to date, but he says he doesn't want to see anyone romantically. Could he want me later on if I continue being friends with benefits and play it cool?

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  • Now she did also caveat this by saying I am coming off the back of two years in a friends with benefits situation that I don't want to repeat.

Synonyms

friendship with benefits
vsfriends with benefits
  • NSFW
7.3

Two friends who have sex but are not a romantic couple

refers to the two people involved rather than the relationship itself

How Romantic

marriage
1.0
partner
878 1.1
dating
357 1.6
friends with benefits
  • NSFW
5 7.4
hookup
  • NSFW
20 8.2

Surface Forms

Morphology

friend + with + benefit

The idiomatic meaning — two friends who have a sexual relationship without a romantic partnership — is not derivable from the literal constituents 'friend' + 'with' + 'benefit(s)', since 'benefit' normally means an advantage rather than a sexual liaison. This is a colloquial, culture-specific usage whose sexual connotation is unpredictable for a B1 learner even if they know the component words, so it should be treated as opaque.

Etymology

Friends with benefits comes from the simple idea of two friends who share the benefits, a polite way to say sex, without becoming a couple. That's why it means 'two friends who have a sexual relationship but are not in a romantic partnership'.