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frenemy

frenemy

8.3
Appearing friendly but secretly trying to compete with you
  • adjective
  • /ˈfrɛnəmi/
  • Slang
translation icon : rival amistoso
  • The frenemy relationship between the two coworkers created constant tension in the office.

Examples

  • Her frenemy attitude made it hard to know if she was truly supportive.

  • Navigating a frenemy dynamic can be tricky, as you never know when a friendly gesture might hide resentment.

  • He received advice from a frenemy who secretly wanted him to fail.

  • Her frenemy smile always left us guessing about her true feelings.

  • At the party, she acted like a friend, but her frenemy comments revealed her jealousy.

How Friendly

loyal
505 1.0
friendly
773 1.0
frenemy
  • Slang
8.3
unfriendly
22 1.9
hostile
194 4.6

Surface Forms

frenemy positive

Morphology

frenemy = friend + enemy (transparent) = fren + emy

The adjective is formed from the same blend 'friend' + 'enemy' and retains the same inferable meaning.

Etymology

Frenemy used as an adjective comes from the same blend of friend and enemy, and it describes someone who seems 'friendly' but is really a 'rival'. So, calling someone a 'frenemy' in this way says they act nice on the surface but may secretly want you to fail.