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for pity's sake

for pity's sake

2 8.2
A person asks angrily and urgently for someone to act now
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : por el amor de Dios
  • "Why, for pity's sake?" I could not keep the exasperation out of my voice.
  • Oh, for pity's sake

Examples

  • "Oh, for pity's sake," Betty said.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • I mean, for pity's sake, she was dying.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • It's Sunday morning, for pity's sake.

  • Good Uncle... for pity's sake!

  • What did he know of it, for pity's sake?

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Here, for pity's sake, give me the phone.

    Fiction book (1999)
  • For pity's sake, go now.

  • Oh, for pity's sake, quit the whining and crying already.

    Blog text (29)
  • "Oh, for pity's sake, Ariel, don't be cheerful."

    Fiction book (1997)
  • For pity's sake, can you just listen to me for once?

Synonyms

for Christ's sake
vsfor pity's sake
  • Offensive
65 9.7

A strong expression showing anger, surprise, or urgency

is less religious and generally milder in feeling
for heaven's sake
vsfor pity's sake
  • Informal
45 7.6

People say it to show impatience or anger

is similar but feels more plain and less formal
for fuck's sake
vsfor pity's sake
  • Offensive
33 9.9

A very rude phrase people say to show strong anger or annoyance

is much milder and acceptable in more polite contexts
for crying out loud
vsfor pity's sake
  • Informal
31 8.2

You say this when you feel very annoyed or impatient

is comparable but usually feels slightly less forceful
for chrissake
vsfor pity's sake
  • Offensive
24 9.9

Say it to show strong anger, frustration, or urgency, and it is rude

is similar but is cleaner in language and less slangy
for Pete's sake
vsfor pity's sake
  • Informal
21 9.0

Shows someone is annoyed, impatient, or in a hurry when spoken

is similar but a bit more earnest and less casual
darn it
vsfor pity's sake
  • Informal
17 8.4

A short phrase people say when they feel frustrated or disappointed

is more pleading and urgent rather than merely disappointed
for goodness' sake
vsfor pity's sake
  • Informal
10 7.6

Say it when you are annoyed to ask someone to do or stop something

is similar but slightly more emotional or pleading in feeling
for chrissakes
vsfor pity's sake
  • Offensive
9 9.9

To show strong frustration and make a request sound urgent

is similar but is less coarse and slightly more polite
for the love of Mike
vsfor pity's sake
  • UK
1 9.9

Words people say when they are very annoyed or want something done quickly

is more straightforward in showing annoyance and urgency
for mercy's sake
vsfor pity's sake
  • Informal
9.3

To ask or beg strongly when you are upset

is similar but leans more toward plain annoyance than pleading
for the love of Christ
vsfor pity's sake
  • Offensive
9.7

A strong spoken request or cry that shows shock and anger

is similar but uses softer, less intense language

How Annoyed

for Christ's sake
  • Offensive
65 9.7
for pity's sake
  • Informal
2 8.2
for goodness' sake
  • Informal
10 7.6
come on
  • Informal
5.4
oh my
321 6.6

Surface Forms

Morphology

for + pity's + sake

The construction follows the familiar 'for X's sake' pattern and the lexical item 'pity' (compassion) plausibly signals an appeal or plea, so a learner who knows the constituents can infer a request or urgent plea. However, its conventional pragmatic force as an exclamation of exasperation or urgency is idiomatic and based on usage patterns rather than purely compositional meaning, so the connection is only partially predictable.

Etymology

The phrase for pity's sake may come from old requests asking someone to show pity, meaning kindness or help. That strong plea became a short way to complain or beg, so today we use it to show 'annoyance' or 'urgency'.