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for crying out loud

for crying out loud

31 8.2
You say this when you feel very annoyed or impatient
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : por amor de Dios
  • Oh, for crying out loud, dad!
  • Oh, for crying out loud

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Examples

  • - What is taking so long, for crying out loud?

  • Oh, for crying out loud.

  • It's Air Force One, for crying out loud.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • And it's Christmas time, for crying out loud.

    Fiction book (1997)
  • It's the White House, for crying out loud.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • For crying out loud, Rose, what does any of this have to do with the price of tea in China?

  • -Erik, for crying out loud, man!

  • Do not, for crying out loud, do not try to face something that you're struggling with alone.

  • For crying out loud!

  • I can't believe you forgot my birthday, for crying out loud!

Synonyms

for Christ's sake
vsfor crying out loud
  • Offensive
65 9.7

A strong expression showing anger, surprise, or urgency

is equally urgent but uses milder, nonreligious phrasing
for heaven's sake
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
45 7.6

People say it to show impatience or anger

is comparable but generally feels slightly more forceful
for fuck's sake
vsfor crying out loud
  • Offensive
33 9.9

A very rude phrase people say to show strong anger or annoyance

is similarly strong but not expressed with vulgar language
for Pete's sake
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
21 9.0

Shows someone is annoyed, impatient, or in a hurry when spoken

is similar but tends to sound more urgent
darn it
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
17 8.4

A short phrase people say when they feel frustrated or disappointed

is stronger and conveys greater impatience or annoyance
fucking hell
vsfor crying out loud
  • Offensive
14 9.9

A strong rude shout people use when they feel very angry or shocked

is similar but less vulgar and slightly milder in force
grrr
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
11 9.9

A short sound people say or write to show anger

is less animalistic and more conversationally expressive of irritation
for goodness' sake
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
10 7.6

Say it when you are annoyed to ask someone to do or stop something

is used the same way but feels a bit stronger
for chrissakes
vsfor crying out loud
  • Offensive
9 9.9

To show strong frustration and make a request sound urgent

is similar but slightly more neutral and less crude
aargh
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
8 9.9

A loud cry made when people feel frustrated, hurt, or surprised

is a longer spoken expression used for general annoyance
aagh
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
3 9.9

A short cry people make when they feel pain or are annoyed

is a fuller phrase used for stronger, spoken impatience
for pity's sake
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
2 8.2

A person asks angrily and urgently for someone to act now

is used similarly but often with more blunt annoyance
you're killing me
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
2 8.9

A way to show strong frustration or disbelief about someone's words and actions

is more direct annoyance rather than playful exaggeration
argh
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
1 9.8

A short sound that shows frustration or annoyance

is more verbal and used to complain or scold directly
dratted
vsfor crying out loud
  • Archaic
1 8.6

A mild word people use to show they are annoyed about something

is more modern and expresses stronger, immediate frustration
for the love of Mike
vsfor crying out loud
  • UK
1 9.9

Words people say when they are very annoyed or want something done quickly

is more straightforwardly annoyed rather than playfully exasperated
tss
vsfor crying out loud
  • Informal
1 9.9

A short sharp hiss to show you are annoyed or to get someone's attention

is a spoken phrase expressing active impatience rather than a sound
for the love of Christ
vsfor crying out loud
  • Offensive
9.7

A strong spoken request or cry that shows shock and anger

is similar in force but often less blasphemous

Antonyms

110 1.0

In a calm, steady way without showing anger or nervousness

75 1.9

In a calm way without getting angry while waiting

How Annoyed

for Christ's sake
  • Offensive
65 9.7
for chrissake
  • Offensive
24 9.9
for crying out loud
  • Informal
31 8.2
for heaven's sake
  • Informal
45 7.6
dratted
  • Archaic
1 8.6

Surface Forms

Morphology

for + crying + out + loud

The literal words ('crying', 'out', 'loud') evoke intense audible upset, which gives learners a clue that the phrase signals strong emotion or emphasis, so there is some compositional motivation. However, its fixed interjectional use as an idiomatic complaint or exasperated reprimand (not literal crying) is pragmatically specific and not fully predictable from the parts, so prior exposure is usually needed for accurate use.

Etymology

For crying out loud likely began as a mild way to avoid a stronger religious swear; one popular story says people replaced 'for Christ's sake' with the gentler image of someone 'crying out loud' to show strong feeling. That's why for crying out loud is used today to show 'annoyance' or impatience.