for love or money
- idiom
- Informal
- I couldn't get her to wear a dress for love or money.
Examples
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The two things he lusted for, Danny's girl and Danny's car, he couldn't get for love or money.
Fiction book (1995) -
I wouldn't sell my old guitar for love or money.
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She refused to accept help for love or money, wanting to do it all on her own.
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He wouldn't change his mind about the matter for love or money.
Synonyms
Refuse to do something no matter what happens
Antonyms
How Likely
- Informal
- Informal
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Surface Forms
Morphology
Although 'love' and 'money' are recognizable motives, their literal combination does not transparently yield the idiomatic sense 'under no circumstances' — the phrase functions as a negative intensifier meaning one would not do something regardless of incentive. This entrenched idiomatic usage is not reliably derivable from the parts, so learners who only know the constituent words are unlikely to infer the correct meaning.
Etymology
For love or money may come from a simple image: someone being offered either love or money to do something. Saying you would not do it 'for love or money' means even these two strong offers would not change your mind, so it means 'under any circumstances'.