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fair-weather friend

fair-weather friend

2 5.6
A person who helps only when things are good and leaves during problems
  • noun
  • /ˈfɛrˌwɛðər frɛnd/
  • Informal
translation icon : amigo de conveniencia
  • She realized that he was a fair-weather friend when he was nowhere to be found during her difficult times.

You can only be a fair weather friend for so long before people get wise to IT.

Examples

  • Somewhat of a fair-weather friend, Turkish Prime Minister Recep Tayyip Erdoğan.

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  • I'm not like those so- called... fair-weather friends of yours.

  • You can only be a fair weather friend for so long before people get wise to IT.

  • I'm your fair weather friend, honey.

  • And promise yourself you will never be that kind of fair-weather friend.

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  • Well, some are fair-weather friends.

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  • I'm glad you were not only a fair-weather friend.

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  • The walkout quickly revealed the president to be a fair-weather friend.

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  • Or are you a fair-weather friend that would go right back to being a sassy man-hater if your current relationship ever soured?

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  • Here's hoping President Obama's newfound acceptance of the partisan divide has also wised him up to the fact that the deficit hawks are fair-weather friends who stabbed him in the back.

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Antonyms

10 1.0

A person who always supports you and can be trusted

How Loyal

best friend
940 1.0
friend
1.0
fair-weather friend
  • Informal
2 5.6
acquaintance
114 3.5

Surface Forms

Morphology

fair-weather + friend

The meaning is directly derivable from the parts: 'fair-weather' (= good/pleasant weather) suggests favourable circumstances, combined with 'friend' yields 'a friend present only in good times.' This compositional, metaphorical but transparent pattern is cross-linguistically common and would be understandable to a B1 learner who knows the constituent words.

Etymology

Fair-weather friend comes from a simple weather picture: a fair-weather person is only around in sunshine and runs away when storms come, so a friend like that is there in 'good times' but not in 'bad times'.