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enmeshment

enmeshment

1 8.8
A family situation where personal boundaries are unclear because people are too close
  • noun
  • /ɪnˈmɛʃmənt/
  • Specialized
: enredo
  • In families experiencing enmeshment, personal boundaries often become blurry, leading to unhealthy relationships.
  • enmeshment in the family
  • Parental enmeshment
  • Teacher enmeshment

No one needs to know that level of enmeshment can be very, very toxic.

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Examples

  • Additionally, a year in college could affect enmeshment by determining how much time students have already spent interacting with faculty.

    Academic text (2013)
  • Enmeshment has been identified outside the family, most notably in educational settings.

    Academic text (2013)
  • No one needs to know that level of enmeshment can be very, very toxic.

  • To learn more about the issues with enmeshment in marriage, check out this week's podcast!

    Blog text (17)
  • And so the enmeshment is when the child's role is to meet the parents needs.

  • But we look at our children as the the trophy for our self worth and that's the enmeshment that is toxic.

  • And so with an enmeshment, an enmeshed family, they expect your loyalty to be undying to them.

  • Enmeshment of any kind can be damaging to the individual (Kinnier, Brigman, & Noble, 1990).

    Academic text (2013)
  • Therapists often address enmeshment when individuals struggle to assert their own identities apart from their families.

  • Children in enmeshment situations may feel pressured to prioritize their parents' needs over their own well-being.

Synonyms

entwinement
vsenmeshment
1 7.4

A close, often complicated connection between people, groups, or ideas

is about unclear personal boundaries from overly close family or relational ties
overfamiliarity
vsenmeshment
1 7.4

Being too friendly with someone so they feel disrespected

focuses on unclear personal boundaries from overly close intertwined relationships

Antonyms

441 3.0

Freedom from control by others, for example when a country is free or a person supports themselves

23 6.1

A lack of emotional involvement with people or situations

How Enmeshed

enmeshment
  • Specialized
1 8.8
closeness
28 2.8
detachment
23 6.1
independence
441 3.0

Surface Forms

enmeshment singular
enmeshments plural

Morphology

enmeshment = enmesh (semi-transparent) = en + mesh + ment

The noun is derived from the verb 'enmesh' with the addition of the suffix '-ment' to indicate a state or condition.

Etymology

Enmeshment comes from the prefix en- meaning 'in' and the word mesh meaning 'net' or 'weave together'. Think of family members woven into the same net so personal space and boundaries get mixed up, and that is why enmeshment means relationships are too close and make independence hard.