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effete

effete

3 9.9
Too delicate and refined in style, showing little physical strength
  • adjective
  • /ɪˈfiːt/
  • Offensive
translation icon : afeminado
  • When I was a kid, our Philly working-class neighborhood was invaded by an effete left-wing sociologist author pretending to be an Episcopal missionary.

Examples

  • His success as an actor and as breadwinner is actually impeded by the effete culture of off-Broadway.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • Raymond is a sports-obsessed, beer-swilling actor, and Donnie is a more effete literature professor.

    Blog text (31)
  • But this sounds at once too worthy and too effete.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • An effete British superhero, to be precise.

  • Buckley was kind of an effete guy.

  • I read it to understand what the East Coast effete elites think, not for news.

    Blog text (32)
  • I used to read some of the more effete car magazines, the ones that cover F1.

    Blog text (29)
  • I am fairly timid by nature and a natural victim, my own body being more suited to an effete academic.

    Fiction book (1994)
  • As a result, humanistic now means arty—in other words, refined, cultivated, and effete.

    Academic text (1990)
  • His effete behavior at the gym made others question his commitment to fitness.

Synonyms

effeminate
vseffete
  • Offensive
15 7.5

A male who looks or acts like a woman

is broader adding affected refinement and lack of vigor
unmanly
vseffete
4 6.8

Not showing the strength or courage people expect from men

adds affected overrefinement and being seen as weak or delicate
emasculated
vseffete
  • Offensive
1 7.5

Feeling less strong or less like a man

describes an affected overrefined state rather than caused weakening

Antonyms

112 3.9

Strong and able to work well in difficult conditions

79 3.0

Showing strength, courage, or a strong will often seen as men's qualities

virile
  • NSFW
14 7.2

Strong and energetic in a way people usually see in adult men

How Affected

pretentious
  • Offensive
74 7.3
effete
  • Offensive
3 9.9
affected
7.5
unaffected
2 4.8

Surface Forms

effete positive

Etymology

Effete also took on the idea of being too delicate or soft because the old sense was 'drained' of strength. That's why effete can describe a person or style that seems overly refined and lacking in traditional strength.