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to dig one's own grave

to dig one's own grave

7.1
To do something that makes you fail
  • idiom
  • Informal
: cavar su propia tumba
  • You're digging your own grave.
  • you've just dug your own grave

Examples

Synonyms

to self-destruct
vsto dig one's own grave
41 6.7

To ruin your own life or job by your actions

is less extreme meaning failure or downfall rather than total loss
to shoot yourself in the foot
vsto dig one's own grave
  • Informal
4 7.5

Cause trouble for yourself by your actions, often by accident

is about causing serious failure rather than accidental harm
to self-destroy
vsto dig one's own grave
1 8.4

To cause a machine or person to stop working by their own action

is about causing failure or downfall rather than extreme total harm
to pave the road to hell
vsto dig one's own grave
  • Informal
1 9.1

To take actions that seem good but cause bad results

can be deliberate rather than accidental
to shoot oneself in the foot
vsto dig one's own grave
  • Informal
1 8.4

Do or say something that harms your own chances

is about causing downfall rather than a minor accidental disadvantage
to dig a hole for oneself
vsto dig one's own grave
  • Informal
7.9

To cause problems for yourself because of your actions

is more about causing a full failure or personal downfall
make a rod for one's own back
vsto dig one's own grave
  • Archaic
9.5

Do something that causes trouble for yourself later

is about causing immediate failure or downfall rather than future trouble
smoking one's own dope
vsto dig one's own grave
  • Archaic
9.9

Acting in a way that harms you because you trust your own wrong ideas

is broader and includes failures not only from misguided ideas

Antonyms

827 2.0

To reach a goal after trying hard

85 3.7

To become successful or grow well, often by making money

How Harmful

to bring down
78 4.6
to dig one's own grave
  • Informal
7.1
to mistake
17 1.0

Surface Forms

dig one's own grave infinitive
digging one's own grave present participle
digs one's own grave third person singular
dug one's own grave past participle

Morphology

dig + one + own + grave

The image of 'dig' + 'one's own' + 'grave' evokes the idea of causing one’s own burial, so a learner who knows the words will likely infer self-inflicted harm or downfall. However, the expression is a metaphorical extension (not literal) and the precise idiomatic nuance — causing one’s failure or downfall rather than literal death — is not fully predictable without exposure, so it is only partly transparent.

Etymology

The idiom dig one's own grave creates a clear image of someone with a shovel actually digging their grave, so they cause their own end. That's why the phrase means 'to do something that causes your own failure or downfall'.