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dementor

dementor

1 8.7
A person or thing that drains others' joy and makes them feel discouraged
  • noun
  • /dɪˈmɛntər/
  • Offensive
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  • If he were in a Harry Potter book, he could be a Dementor, just sucking the joy out of people's souls.

Examples

  • I hope so much you are coming out of your tunnel of despair and that 2012 proves to be a year where that suck-arse Dementor of depression doesn't touch you.

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  • Being around him feels like having a dementor nearby, always draining the joy from every moment.

  • The constant negativity in the office created a dementor atmosphere that discouraged everyone's enthusiasm.

  • After losing her job, she felt like a dementor, as if she could no longer find joy in anything.

Synonyms

scourge
vsdementor
  • Formal
38 8.2

A person or thing that causes great suffering

is smaller in scope and focuses on draining individuals' joy or hope
downer
vsdementor
  • Informal
27 5.6

Something that makes you feel sad or disappointed

is deeper and removes hope or joy rather than causing brief sadness
tormentor
vsdementor
  • NSFW
12 7.9

A person who hurts someone on purpose, often again and again

is less about direct harm and more about draining joy or hope
discourager
vsdementor
5.3

Something that makes a person lose confidence and not want to try

is more general and drains overall joy or hope not just confidence

Antonyms

63 3.2

A person who usually expects good things to happen

1 2.7

A person who supports others and makes them feel confident

How Draining

dementor
  • Offensive
1 8.7
wet blanket
  • Offensive
7 5.6
spoilsport
  • Offensive
4 6.5
dampener
1 4.6

Surface Forms

dementor singular
dementors plural

Morphology

dementor = demented (transparent) = dement + or

As a figurative use, the agentive '-or' plus the idea of causing 'demented' states or severe gloom is inferable: a person who causes others to feel joyless or discouraged.

Etymology

Dementor can be used about a person or thing and a helpful way to remember it is to see the parts de- 'down' and ment 'mind', like in the word demented. A dementor in speech is someone who brings others down or drains their joy.