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courtship

courtship

27 3.6
Trying to get someone's romantic attention, often before marriage
  • noun
  • /ˈkɔrtʃɪp/
translation icon : cortejo
  • My research suggests that patterns of courtship and marriage differ little between towns and villages.
  • courtship and marriage
  • love and courtship
  • courtship patterns

That's not love bombing, that's a normal courtship, right?

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Examples

  • In the early days of my parents' courtship, my mother told stories.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Where I come from, that counts as courtship.

  • Like I feel like way too many people are going through a very important part of courtship and getting to know someone over text.

  • That is how our courtship began.

  • I decided to end our courtship the same way I started it.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • I've been trying to write the story of our courtship now for 10 years.

  • Our whole courtship, we watched Westerns.

  • When Micah tells the story of our courtship, he tells it with great self-deprecation and humor.

    Fiction book (1995)
  • Their mad, impulsive courtship had been full of laughter and stolen kisses from the first.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • Their courtship lasted for several years before they finally decided to get married.

Synonyms

dating
vscourtship
357 1.6

Spending time with someone in a romantic way to see if you want a relationship

is more focused on actively seeking marriage rather than exploring options
flirtation
vscourtship
28 3.5

Playful behaviour to show romantic or sexual interest

is more purposeful and aims at long term marriage commitment
suit
vscourtship
  • Archaic
26 6.4

Trying to win someone's love, often to marry them

limits meaning to romantic seeking for marriage, not formal requests
courting
vscourtship
11 4.6

Trying to get someone's love, often with marriage in mind

has identical meaning and serves as an alternate form
wooing
vscourtship
1 5.5

To try to make someone love you, often to marry them

is the defined act of seeking romantic affection for marriage

Antonyms

180 3.0

Not being accepted by people or a group

5 5.8

Not feeling interested in something, like a talk or task

Compounds

Actions people or animals do to attract a partner before starting a relationship

How Serious

marriage
1.0
engagement
186 2.8
courtship
27 3.6
dating
357 1.6
flirting
43 3.5

Surface Forms

courtship singular
courtships plural

Morphology

courtship = court (transparent) = court + ship

The noun is a regular formation from 'court' (to court/seek affection) + the noun-forming suffix '-ship', meaning the state or activity of courting.

Etymology

Courtship comes from the idea of a court as a place where people tried to 'win favor', and the ending -ship means a 'state' or 'time'. So, courtship is the time when someone tries to win another person's love, often with the aim of marriage.