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complaisance

complaisance

1 9.1
Willingness to please others and accept their wishes
  • noun
  • /kəmˈpleɪsəns/
  • Formal
: complacencia
  • For believe me, there is no scourge of friendships like flattery and complaisance, the characteristic vices of the light-minded and smooth-tongued, those who say what's sure to please and never what is true.

Examples

  • His complaisance made it easy for him to fit in with the group, as he always agreed with their plans.

  • So it came to pass that, tricked by this false complaisance, I was in the capital the very afternoon that the crisis struck.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Gervaise's complaisance takes the form of goodness and kindness, as well as compliance with the wishes of others.

    Academic text (1992)
  • He might otherwise be tempted to sacrifice his duty to his complaisance for those whose favor was necessary for the duration of his official consequence.

    Blog text (11)
  • The drive to avoid real self-activation or individuation leads to the kind of complaisance that is Gervaise's salient characteristic.

    Academic text (1992)
  • Her complaisance towards her friends often led her to put their needs above her own.

  • The manager appreciated his employee's complaisance in handling client requests promptly.

Synonyms

deference
vscomplaisance
34 7.8

Polite respect that makes you accept someone's wishes or opinions

is a readiness to please others rather than respectful submission
compliancy
vscomplaisance
1 7.5

A habit of doing what other people want even if you disagree

is motivated by a wish to please others rather than mere submission
obligingness
vscomplaisance
1 7.5

Readiness to help other people when asked

focuses on pleasing and accepting wishes rather than doing specific favors
amenableness
vscomplaisance
  • Formal
8.4

A willingness to work with others and accept suggestions

centers on pleasing others rather than general cooperation

How Accommodating

obligingness
1 7.5
complaisance
  • Formal
1 9.1
helpfulness
2 2.3
acquiescence
10 8.5
compliance
151 5.0

Surface Forms

complaisance singular
complaisances plural

Morphology

complaisance = complaisant (semi-transparent) = complais + ance

The transformation from 'complaisant' to 'complaisance' is clear, but the root 'complais' is not a standalone English word.

Etymology

Complaisance comes from old French and Latin words that mean 'to please', with the parts com- 'with' and placere 'to please'. So, complaisance is about being ready to please or help other people.