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complaisance

complaisance

1 9.1
Willingness to please others and accept their wishes
  • noun
  • /kəmˈpleɪsəns/
  • Formal
translation icon : complacencia
  • For believe me, there is no scourge of friendships like flattery and complaisance, the characteristic vices of the light-minded and smooth-tongued, those who say what's sure to please and never what is true.

Examples

  • His complaisance made it easy for him to fit in with the group, as he always agreed with their plans.

  • So it came to pass that, tricked by this false complaisance, I was in the capital the very afternoon that the crisis struck.

    Fiction book (1996)
  • Gervaise's complaisance takes the form of goodness and kindness, as well as compliance with the wishes of others.

    Academic text (1992)
  • He might otherwise be tempted to sacrifice his duty to his complaisance for those whose favor was necessary for the duration of his official consequence.

    Blog text (11)
  • The drive to avoid real self-activation or individuation leads to the kind of complaisance that is Gervaise's salient characteristic.

    Academic text (1992)
  • Her complaisance towards her friends often led her to put their needs above her own.

  • The manager appreciated his employee's complaisance in handling client requests promptly.

Synonyms

deference
vscomplaisance
34 7.8

Polite respect that makes you accept someone's wishes or opinions

is a readiness to please others rather than respectful submission
compliancy
vscomplaisance
7.5

A habit of doing what other people want even if you disagree

is motivated by a wish to please others rather than mere submission
obligingness
vscomplaisance
7.5

Readiness to help other people when asked

focuses on pleasing and accepting wishes rather than doing specific favors
amenableness
vscomplaisance
  • Formal
8.4

A willingness to work with others and accept suggestions

centers on pleasing others rather than general cooperation

How Accommodating

complaisance
  • Formal
1 9.1
helpfulness
3 2.3
acquiescence
11 8.5
compliance
171 5.0

Surface Forms

complaisance singular
complaisances plural

Morphology

complaisance = complaisant (semi-transparent) = complais + ance

The transformation from 'complaisant' to 'complaisance' is clear, but the root 'complais' is not a standalone English word.

Etymology

Complaisance comes from old French and Latin words that mean 'to please', with the parts com- 'with' and placere 'to please'. So, complaisance is about being ready to please or help other people.