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to carry a torch

to carry a torch

4 7.7
Have strong feelings of love for someone who does not love you back
  • idiom
  • /ˈkæri ə tɔrʧ/
  • Informal
translation icon : estar enamorado
  • You're still carrying a torch for that Nash aren't you.
  • still carry a torch
  • carry a torch for a girl

Examples

  • After all these years, he still carries a torch for her despite their breakup.

  • He'd been carrying a torch for her.

  • Well, you might still be carrying a torch for him.

  • "You carried a torch for Victoria all that time?"

    Fiction book (1990)
  • That man was carrying a torch a mile high for some girl.

  • Rose had admitted as much, but it hadn't even occurred to him she might still be carrying a torch.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • You're not carrying a torch for him, are you, Eva?

  • I don't care how long you've been carrying a torch.

  • It's obvious from the way she greets Armando that they were once an item and that she still carries a torch.

  • You carry a torch for a girl you dated in high school—in high school for God's sake!

    Fiction book (1994)

Synonyms

to pine for
vsto carry a torch
17 6.7

To feel very sad and want someone or something a lot

expresses long romantic desire often unreturned

Antonyms

1.8

Decide not to think about something

How Romantic

head over heels
  • Informal
17 3.4
to carry a torch
  • Informal
4 7.7
to have a crush on
  • Informal
106 3.3
to like
1.0

Surface Forms

carry a torch infinitive
carried a torch past participle
carrying a torch present participle
carries a torch third person singular

Morphology

carry + a + torch

The romantic meaning is not directly predictable from literal 'carry' (hold) + 'a torch' (a portable light), because the link to enduring or unrequited love is a conventionalized metaphor rather than a straightforward compositional meaning. There is a partial clue—torch can metaphorically suggest a long-burning passion—so learners might sense an emotional sense, but the specific romantic/unreciprocated nuance is not reliably inferable by a B1 learner without prior exposure.

Etymology

The idiom carry a torch comes from one popular story: imagine someone walking with a burning torch for the person they love, keeping the light even when that love is not returned. So it means 'to have strong feelings for someone that are not returned'.