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to can’t bear

to can’t bear

59 3.7
Cannot stand something because it is too unpleasant or upsetting
  • phrasal verb
  • /kænt bɛr/
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  • It's just about Christmas, and I can't bear the thought of being alone without you.
  • can't bear to see
  • can't bear to look
  • can't bear the cost

Examples

  • And now my life is bound up with the kind of questions I can't bear to ask.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • And I can't bear the thought of Christmas without you.

  • Most of these I could not bear to leave behind.

  • There are some women, it is said, who cannot bear the thought of success.

    Fiction book (1991)
  • But I miss my mother, and I cannot bear Christmas without her.

    Fiction book (1998)
  • I cannot bear that burden.

  • I cannot bear the guilt.

  • Oh, I can't bear the thought of you going to Kansas.

  • I can't bear this dreadful music.

  • I can't bear the sound of nails on a chalkboard.

Synonyms

to can't stand
vsto can’t bear
516 3.2

Strongly dislike and be unable to bear something or someone

emphasizes not being able to endure things that are upsetting or difficult
to loathe
vsto can’t bear
58 5.3

To dislike someone or something very strongly

focuses on being unable to tolerate unpleasant or difficult things rather than only disgust
to detest
vsto can’t bear
49 3.5

To feel a very strong dislike for someone or something

is about not being able to tolerate upsetting or difficult things rather than mere aversion
to stand the sight of
vsto can’t bear
  • Informal
6 6.5

You feel upset or faint when you see something you dislike

covers inability to endure unpleasant or upsetting things in general not only visual cases

Antonyms

3.5

To tolerate an unpleasant situation without complaining

876 3.9

To accept something difficult or unpleasant

304 3.5

To deal with something difficult for a long time without giving up

How Tolerant

to welcome
233 1.0
to accept
793 1.0
to tolerate
290 3.5
to put up with
288 4.3
to can’t bear
59 3.7

Surface Forms

can’t bear infinitive
can’t bearing present participle
can’t bears third person singular
couldn’t borne past participle

Morphology

can’t + bear

The meaning 'to be unable to tolerate' is directly and transparently composed from 'can’t' (cannot) + 'bear' (to tolerate). This auxiliary-negation + verb pattern is a standard, compositional structure that a B1 learner who knows the constituents will readily understand.

Etymology

Can't bear comes from the old idea of trying to carry something too heavy. The verb bear once meant 'to carry' or 'hold', so if you 'can't bear' something you cannot carry it, and it now means 'to be unable to tolerate'.