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benching

benching

1 9.9
Keeping someone as a romantic option without committing to a relationship
  • noun
  • /ˈbɛnʧɪŋ/
  • Slang
translation icon : mantener en espera
  • After weeks of dating, she realized he was only benching her while exploring other options.

Examples

  • Despite going on dates with others, he was still benching her in case things didn't work out.

  • Every Vikings quarterback has heard calls for his benching.

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  • But Valbuena's earned a benching.

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  • It should be the targeting that earns a benching.

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  • Coach Spurrier confirmed the players' benching on a Saturday, and the news was buried deep in a story regarding a weekend scrimmage in the Anderson Independent-Mail.

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  • If, per se, you wanna increase muscle mass, but you have a high metabolism and do strength training (meaning lifting or benching, a.k.a. working out), you would.

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  • Auburn: Benching of Khiel Frazier provides no offensive spark, and Auburn once again collapses late on both sides of the football.

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  • The four-game wipeout made headlines: A-Rod's benching, Derek Jeter's injury, Robinson Cano's slump.

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  • He kept her as a fallback option, practicing a form of benching in their relationship.

Antonyms

829 3.3

A promise to support a person, cause, or plan

8 6.7

The state of being limited to a small group and not shared with others

How Committed

dating
357 1.6
benching
  • Slang
1 9.9
ghosting
  • Slang
1 7.2

Surface Forms

benching singular
benchings plural

Morphology

benching = bench (semi-transparent) = bench + ing

The slang meaning is a metaphorical extension of 'bench' (to sideline someone) and may not be predictable to learners without knowledge of the social/sports metaphor.

Etymology

Benching comes from the idea of putting someone on the bench, like a player who 'sits and waits' instead of joining the game. So in dating, benching means keeping someone as an option without committing to a real relationship.