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to be intimate

to be intimate

16 7.9
Have sex with someone
  • phrasal verb
  • /bi ˈɪntɪmət/
  • NSFW
translation icon : tener relaciones sexuales (con)
  • I didn't think I was gonna be intimate this weekend.
  • have ever been intimate
  • want to be intimate

So she, she couldn't be intimate unless she was stone cold drunk.

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Examples

  • That's not the kind of guy I want to be intimate with.

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  • He felt nervous about being intimate for the first time with someone he truly liked.

  • That you would like to be intimate with me?

  • You were intimate with both of them.

  • My dear, we were intimate.

  • I wanted to be intimate with them

    Fiction book (1992)
  • When you're being intimate with somebody, are you, are you a lights on or off kind of person?

  • If she really, really wants to be intimate with him, why doesn't she?

  • There are other ways of being intimate that people don't even realize.

  • You have little energy or desire to cuddle, snuggle, or be intimate with your spouse.

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Synonyms

to fuck
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
9.9

To have sex with someone

is a socially acceptable euphemism avoiding offensive terms
to have sex
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
3.0

To touch each other's private parts for physical pleasure

is a milder euphemism rather than a direct term
to do it
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
999 9.8

To have sex with someone

is more euphemistic and less plainly casual
to love
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
698 8.6

To have sex with another person

is a euphemism often used instead of direct words
to know
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
675 9.9

To have sex with someone

is modern euphemistic language rather than archaic usage
to sleep with
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
652 7.4

To have sex with someone

is a general euphemism not limited to relationship status
to make love
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
296 5.3

Have sex with someone you love or care about

is a neutral euphemism without explicit emotional emphasis
to screw
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
205 9.9

To have sex with someone, said as a rude word

is a polite euphemism rather than extremely vulgar speech
to get it on
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
125 9.3

To have sex with someone

is a milder euphemism rather than an activity starter phrase
to bang
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
122 9.9

To have sex with someone

is a restrained euphemism avoiding vulgar bluntness
to get laid
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
95 9.9

To have sex with someone, usually in a short, casual way

is a neutral euphemism without implied casual intent
to sleep together
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
69 7.4

Have sex with another person, often when not married

is a neutral euphemism not focused on marital status
to hump
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
58 9.9

To have sex with someone, used as a rude word

is a polite euphemism rather than coarse language
to have intercourse
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
23 8.1

To have sex with someone

is informal and euphemistic rather than formal
to bed
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
12 9.0

To have sex with someone

is a more general euphemism not tied to a place
to lie with
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
6 9.1

To have sex with someone

is informal and euphemistic rather than formal legal language
to sex
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
5 5.1

To have physical contact with someone for pleasure, usually in a casual way

is a euphemism used to avoid direct common words
to eff
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
2 9.9

To have sex with someone

is a broader euphemism not framed as a substitute
to bonk
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
2 9.9

To have sex with someone

is a more neutral euphemism without playful tone
to have a go at it
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To have sex with someone

is a more general euphemism without playful tone
to have it off
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
1 9.9

To have sex with someone, used in informal British English

is a general euphemism not regionally marked
to jazz
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
1 9.9

To have sex with someone

is a calmer euphemism rather than slang
to effing
vsto be intimate
  • Offensive
9.9

To have sex with someone

is a clearer euphemism rather than a softened vulgar form
to have it away
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
9.9

To have sex with someone

is a milder euphemism rather than plain informal speech
to roll in the hay
vsto be intimate
  • NSFW
9.2

To have sex briefly in a casual way

is a general euphemism not emphasizing playfulness

How Intimate

to make love
  • NSFW
296 5.3
to be intimate
  • NSFW
16 7.9
to make out
  • NSFW
130 8.1
to kiss
1.0

Surface Forms

be intimate infinitive
been intimate past participle
being intimate present participle
is intimate third person singular

Morphology

be + intimate

The sense 'to have sexual intercourse' is partly derivable from combining 'be' with 'intimate' (which signals private/sexual matters), so a learner would understand being in an 'intimate' state. However, the exact interpretation is euphemistic and context-dependent (emotional closeness vs. sexual intercourse), so the specific sexual meaning is not fully predictable from the parts.

Etymology

Be intimate comes from the idea of being very close and private with someone — imagine two people sitting close, whispering and sharing secrets. So to be intimate is often used as a gentle way to say 'have sex' because the private, close feeling suggests physical closeness.