to be an ogre
- idiom
- Offensive
- Try not to be an ogre about the chores—it's important to be fair.
Examples
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If you be an ogre to your classmates, they won't want to play with you.
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She didn't want to be an ogre, so she listened patiently to everyone's opinion.
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Don't be an ogre to your coworkers!
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Why do you always be an ogre during meetings?
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He tends to be an ogre when he is under stress, scaring his team with harsh words.
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If you continue to be an ogre towards your friends, they will distance themselves from you.
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She doesn’t want to be an ogre, but her criticism sometimes comes off too harshly.
Synonyms
To act mean and spoil other people's fun at parties
Antonyms
How Unkind
Surface Forms
Morphology
The meaning is directly inferable from the constituents: 'be' + noun means 'act like' that noun, and 'ogre' denotes a harsh, frightening or cruel person. This composition follows a common cross-linguistic pattern (be X = behave like X) so a B1 learner who knows 'ogre' would readily understand 'be an ogre'.
Etymology
Be an ogre comes from old fairy tales where an ogre is a big, scary creature that eats or frightens people. That strong picture of someone cruel or greedy is why saying 'be an ogre' means 'to behave in an unkind or selfish way'.