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backbiting

backbiting

3 6.7
Saying unpleasant things about someone who is not present
  • noun
  • /ˈbækˌbaɪtɪŋ/
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  • In the office, constant backbiting created a toxic environment where trust was shattered.

My team and I will not tolerate backbiting, second guessing inappropriately or drama.

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Examples

  • Such appointments ensured loyalty, but they also encouraged backbiting among officers in search of upward mobility.

    Academic text (1990)
  • I was prepared for ignorance, outrage, and backbiting; what I was not prepared for was an ongoing discussion about disenfranchisement.

    Blog text (13)
  • It's precisely this kind of backbiting that tires me out.

    Blog text (17)
  • The tongue must be restrained from backbiting and gossip.

    Blog text (6)
  • Television in its first years lived in this atmosphere of backbiting and defamation and fear, which I'm sure had an enormous effect on its future.

  • My team and I will not tolerate backbiting, second guessing inappropriately or drama.

  • The breach of confidentiality that can cause mistrust from the administration is getting involved in rumors, gossip, or backbiting.

    Academic text (2003)
  • I think most readers would agree that a remarkable amount of backbiting and strident squawking rends the field of African art.

    Academic text (2001)
  • Presidential aides expect and deserve it from one another to deter leaks, backbiting, and factionalism.

    Academic text (1999)
  • Franklin would not understate the required level of commitment and sacrifice of running for public office, especially given today's highly partisan climate of backbiting, poor demeanor, and low morale in Washington, DC.

    Academic text (2003)

Synonyms

aspersion
vsbackbiting
11 9.8

A remark that says bad things about someone to hurt their reputation

is about repeated harmful talk about an absent person rather than one remark
mudslinging
vsbackbiting
  • Literature
9 4.8

Making unfair personal attacks to damage someone's reputation in politics

is similar harm through speech but applies broadly beyond political attacks
gossiping
vsbackbiting
  • Informal
7 1.7

Talking about other people's personal lives in a casual way

is more focused on harming someone by speaking badly when they are absent
put-down
vsbackbiting
  • Offensive
5 6.6

A remark that makes someone feel small or embarrassed

is about speaking unpleasantly about someone who is not present rather than direct humiliation
disparagement
vsbackbiting
3 8.1

Talking about someone in a way that shows dislike and makes them seem unimportant

focuses more narrowly on talking badly about absent people rather than general disrespect
malicious gossip
vsbackbiting
1 7.3

Rumours that try to hurt someone's reputation by spreading private facts

focuses on saying unpleasant things about someone absent rather than exposing secrets
bitchery
vsbackbiting
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A way of talking and acting that is mean and hurts people

is specifically about speaking unpleasantly about someone who is not there
belittlement
vsbackbiting
1 7.1

Making someone feel small or unimportant

is specifically the act of saying harmful things about someone who is not present
gossipmongering
vsbackbiting
8.7

Spreading private stories about others to harm or entertain people

is about saying mean things when the target is not present rather than broad publicity
catty conversation
vsbackbiting
  • Offensive
7.9

A talk where people say mean things about others, often behind their backs

is the same hurtful talk but specifically occurs when the person is absent
catty behavior
vsbackbiting
  • Offensive
7.7

Mean words or actions that secretly hurt people in a social group

is when those insults are expressed about someone who is not present
bitchy comment
vsbackbiting
  • Offensive
8.8

A mean remark that hurts or criticizes someone

covers the same nastiness but stresses speaking about absent people rather than single jibes
belittling
vsbackbiting
6.2

Showing that someone or something has little value

is similar negativity but specifically aimed at people who are not there

How Harmful

slander
  • Specialized
44 6.6
vilification
  • Formal
6 8.4
backbiting
3 6.7
gossip
  • Informal
184 1.1

Surface Forms

backbiting singular
backbitings plural

Morphology

backbiting = backbite (semi-transparent) = back + bite + ing

Form is clearly back + bite + -ing, but the meaning is metaphorical and conventionalized (speaking ill behind someone's back) rather than a literal 'biting'.

Etymology

Backbiting comes from the simple words back ('behind someone's back') and bite ('to bite' or 'hurt'). It gives the image of someone 'biting' another when they are not there, which is why backbiting means saying unpleasant or harmful things about someone who is absent.