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ass-kisser

ass-kisser

3 9.9
A person who flatters someone in charge to get favors
  • noun
  • /ˈæsˌkɪsər/
  • Offensive
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  • In his quest for promotion, he became such an ass-kisser that everyone at the office noticed.

Examples

  • Nobody likes an ass kisser.

  • Wow, look at all of these ass-kissers.

    Blog text (7)
  • You think anyone who's proud of the work we do is an ass-kisser.

  • What an ass kisser!

    Fiction book (2001)
  • You're such a polished ass-kisser it takes my breath away.

  • Well, is it true you're an ass-kisser?

  • I'm an ass-kisser too.

  • I don't trust any of those ass-kissers up there at GHQ surrounding MacArthur.

  • To get ahead in that company, you often have to be an ass-kisser to the boss.

  • She realized that being an ass-kisser would only get her temporary favors, not real respect.

Synonyms

lackey
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
20 8.4

A person who says nice things to a powerful person to get something for themselves

matches obsequiousness but stresses flattering to please authority figures
sycophant
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
17 9.3

A person who praises someone important to get favors

is similar but focuses on flattering specifically to please authority
toady
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
8 9.0

A person who flatters and obeys someone in power to gain favor

is the same idea but highlights flattering to obtain personal advantage
crawler
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
5 7.7

A person who praises someone in power to get an advantage

is the same act but highlights flattering behaviour rather than ambition
suck-ass
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
4 9.9

Very bad in quality or a person who praises others to gain favor

focuses solely on flattering to please authority, not on poor quality
flatterer
vsass-kisser
3 4.2

A person who gives fake praise to get someone's favor

is narrower by focusing on pleasing authority for personal advantage
bootlicker
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
2 9.6

A person who flatters someone in power to get favors

matches this servile approach but centers on flattering to please authority
lickspittle
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
1 9.9

A person who praises someone in power to get benefits

shares submissive behaviour but emphasizes pleasing for personal advantage
brown-noser
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
1 8.3

A person who praises someone in charge too much to gain favor

does the same but stresses pleasing to gain personal advantage
apple polisher
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
1 8.7

A person who flatters someone in power to get favours

is similar but stresses pleasing someone in authority rather than general praise
suckhole
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who praises a boss to get a favor

is similar but frames the action as trying to please for gain
throne sniffer
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who flatters people in charge to gain favor

matches the flattering motive but focuses on pleasing authority specifically
adulator
vsass-kisser
  • Formal
8.6

A person who praises someone too much to get something in return

is similar but centers on pleasing authority figures specifically
office buttlicker
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
9.9

A person at work who praises their boss too much to get favors

is the same flattering motive but applies to people beyond the workplace
rock licker
vsass-kisser
  • Offensive
9.9

A person who gives too many compliments to gain favor

matches excessive subservience but highlights pleasing authority specifically

Antonyms

984 2.3

Not controlled by others

218 3.8

Something that is real and trustworthy, not a fake

How Obsequious

sycophant
  • Offensive
17 9.3
toady
  • Offensive
8 9.0
ass-kisser
  • Offensive
3 9.9
flatterer
3 4.2
complimenter
1 3.4
respectful
150 1.1

Surface Forms

ass-kisser singular
ass-kissers plural

Morphology

ass-kisser = ass + kisser (transparent) = ass + kisser

Both base words are recognizable and their metaphorical combination ('one who kisses another's ass' = flatterer) yields the sense directly.

Etymology

Ass-kisser comes from the rude image 'to kiss someone's ass', which is a way of saying 'to flatter' someone too much. So an ass-kisser is a person who gives extra praise to a boss or person in power to gain an advantage.