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against the grain

against the grain

10 6.6
In a way that is different from what most people expect
  • idiom
  • Informal
translation icon : a contracorriente
  • His decision to pursue a career in art went against the grain of his family's expectations for him to enter medicine.
  • go against the grain
  • read against the grain
  • cut against the grain

Contrarian geniuses like to think against the grain.

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Examples

  • His effort, against the grain of his own sharp physical decline, demanded courage and fortitude.

    Academic text (2007)
  • So there are solutions and people are trying to have them implemented, but it goes against the grain of society.

  • For Britain, it seems to go against the grain.

  • I guess I was kind of scared going against the grain.

    Fiction book (2000)
  • This is totally remarkable stuff because it goes against the grain of the way one would like to think about it.

  • I think you are so brave to do something that goes against the grain of our culture.

    Blog text (30)
  • We're going to do something today that goes completely against the grain for me and that is a no makeup makeup routine.

  • I think don't be afraid to go against the grain and sort of challenge the expectations on you.

  • In life, I have learned that you must go against the grain and take some very unpopular stances.

    Blog text (30)
  • I started to notice that my intuition was always guiding me right when I was going against the grain, doing things that no one else thought were a good idea.

Synonyms

unconventional
vsagainst the grain
77 6.2

Different from what most people do or accept

emphasises active challenge to established customs or social values
unorthodox
vsagainst the grain
52 7.3

Not following the usual rules or customs

highlights a social or moral challenge to accepted norms and values
to go against the grain
vsagainst the grain
  • Informal
8 7.4

To do something very different from what most people expect or usually do

is used when the difference challenges established customs or social values
countercultural
vsagainst the grain
3 7.5

Opposing the main values and ways of life of most people

applies more broadly to any action that challenges customs or expected norms
unconventionally
vsagainst the grain
1 7.2

In a way that is different from what most people do

focuses on actions that oppose or question accepted customs or values

How Different

subversive
37 7.8
rebellious
43 4.5
against the grain
  • Informal
10 6.6
unusual
2.2

Surface Forms

Morphology

against + the + grain

The phrase builds on the literal sense of 'against' (contrary to) plus 'grain' (the natural direction or texture, e.g., of wood), so its figurative meaning of acting contrary to the normal/expected is a metaphorical extension of the parts. However, that metaphor requires mapping 'grain' to a directional, natural tendency—knowledge that a B1 learner may not automatically have—so the relation is partially clear but not fully predictable.

Etymology

Against the grain comes from working with wood: the grain is the lines you see in wood, and cutting or planing 'against' those lines makes the wood rough and hard to work. So the phrase now means doing something 'different' or 'uncomfortable' compared with what is usual.